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Unread 05-04-2010, 05:00 PM
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Default Please help me get laid with an older woman using seduction techniques?

Hi Guys,

I am new here...nice forum!

I am trying to get laid with this lady and really need some help.

I really like my doctor/GP and from time to time I see her about this and that, medical and non medical.

Anyway I will give you some background. When I first met her like three years ago I remember her saying something and I said to her 'it looks like you could do with a holiday'. Her reply was 'I'm married'. Then I didn't say anything but she quickly moved onto saying something else. (I found later from a friend that kind of knows her, that she has kids, but this woman has never mentioned that - I think because she is kind of interested in me and feels if she says anything I would run away). Anyway it wasn't awkward as this happened near the end of the appointment and then I left.

I saw her again a few weeks later and we started to get really talkative, I was doing most of the talking. I really like chatting to her, I found it very easy. She was always very interested in me, like where I lived, what do I do etc etc and I would always find her looking down towards my watch.

She sometimes brought into the conversation talk of her husband who is also a doctor. I felt that she felt I had some power over her. I think to her power was like a big attraction. She felt this I believe when she asked what I do for a living which has a bigger pay than doctors make. I believe she liked that. Also I wear an expensive watch which is why all the looking.

I know with seduction it doesn't matter whether your rich or poor you can get any chick you want.

But I felt with her money mattered. Anyway I had appointments with her every six months and every time I went there she was always looking really hot! I have seen other doctors in the past but this woman was smoking hot. She must of been like 43 but looked 36 or 38 years old.

When waiting in the waiting room she would come over and address me as Sir, like 'I will be with you in a moment Sir'. Whenever we ended the appointment she would always shake my hand.

I was on some medication once and the pills were quite strong (nothing badly wrong with me) she showed a sign of worry as I found a long message on my answering phone from another doctor who said that this doctor (the older woman) was trying to contact me and didn't get an answer. I was away at the time. Anyway when I saw her again she didn't mention anything until I told her I got the message on my answering phone. I think she felt a bit silly, maybe there were some feelings she was having towards me and felt it was wrong to let them go anywhere as she's a professional and thought she would stand back and not say anything. When I brought it up she said 'oh yes I was trying to see if you were okay' but shrugged it off like it wasn't such a big deal. But the doctor that left the message made it really sound like she thought it was a big deal.

Anyway I have read the works of Ross Jeffries and seen a lot of his videos. So I am well versed in his work but haven't really used much of it in the real world.

The more I saw this woman I started to really get her visualizing. I think maybe deep down I was using Ross Jeffries patterns on her without realizing it myself. Every time I would mention the word 'relax' or 'I like relaxing' I could see her sinking into her chair. She even asked my age and I told her the truth for back then that I am 27, I think she liked that as that's not like young, older women do go with guys of that age. Especially ones of her age. I told her once, my grandfather who is a doctor lives in Germany and she said her ex boyfriend was German but she split up with him and married this doctor. I said you got to teach me German sometime but she didn't say anything and we continued on with another subject. Some other time she asked me if my grandfather had written this medical book, she must of done some research on me. I told her no, the books author shared the same name with my grandfather which was completely true. She even knew about the area in which I lived in, she would say it's a lovely area to live. I know doctors have a file on all your information so she picked out from there. But still not all doctors go mentioning it out loud.

Once she weighed me on a scale and then we went back into her office and she sat next to me while writing on her table a little note for me for my next appointment and she was sitting so close to me and crossed her legs, she has such amazing legs. She would wear a skirt. Anyway at other times she would get out of her chair on the other side of her office table and come around the other side and sit in one of the patient chairs positioned 45 degree angle towards me and would look at my watch, cross her legs over and then uncross them slowly and cross her other leg. I felt she really fancied me but had never cheated on her husband but wanted to with me. She would slowly open up more and me with me.

At other times while talking she would start stroking her left shoulder and upper arm, she did have her arms crossed on that very day. I hear crossed arms is a bad type of body language it means their defensive about themselves. Anyway the last appointment I had with her which was 2 years ago she gave me her email address, what married doctors gives her email address to their patient? She just said as this way I don't have to have trouble calling you this time and you can email me about anything. I never bothered emailing her and kept her email address this whole time.

I was always the gentleman that I am and didn't try anything on with her, I never paid her a compliment as I felt it was inappropriate. She even once had her ring off and was putting it back on in front of me at the start of the appointment, I thought that was a sign to show me that she want's me even though she is married. Sometimes I think I should make an appointment with her and say something like 'wow in all of these two years your still looking absolutely breathtaking', that would probably blow her away. Ross Jeffries says you can go up to someone in the street and just say 'you look absolutely breathtaking' and it does work he says.

I know what you guys are thinking, I am totally crazy fantasizing like this over an older married woman, but come on I really like this one, she's different. Even if it's a little fling so be it.

Please can you guys show me how I can seduce her with fractionation, patterning, sarging whatever you call it? I need to get laid.

Any help much appreciated

Many thanks in advance



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Default Re: Please help me get laid with an older woman using seduction techniques?

i actually think ur looking into this too much because you want her...most of those things arent huge indicators of interest and even if they are she probably wont cheat on her husband


 
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agree with everything crob said but you are also over analyzing her and she probably isn't actually that interested in you sexually.


 
Unread 05-04-2010, 08:25 PM
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Many thanks for your replies guys

I think this woman likes me, but anyway. With seduction and play on words you can get women who don't normally have feelings for you to start having feelings for you. All I want to know is if I seduce her if she would follow. If not then I will move onto another woman that I can seduce. Now I have her email address but don't quite know if it's such a good idea to email her first or to make an appointment to see her, as it has been like 2 years since I last saw her.

I would really like to know from you guys with the experience in seduction techniques on what is the best thing to say without her detecting what I am doing in order to get her feeling things for me or want to do anything with me?


 
Unread 05-04-2010, 08:42 PM
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If you really want to try stick with the basic stuff, keno escalate with some easy routines and build some good sexual Tension, if you are going to have anything sexual with this woman it is going to be spur of the moment and it wont happen with any kind of planning.


 
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im banging a woman thats 12 years older than me. its the shit, she really knows her stuff and is always demanding more from me which is great because it will turn me into monster in bed for the young ladies. she can move that shit like crazy.

at this time in their lives they want thrill, emotion and relieve the old good days. be flirty, treat her better than the young ones once you get her and make her chase you. ALSO never bring the age issue, dont treat her like you want her for life cause thats not true and be straight with her. shes experienced, just give her a great time and she will come back wanting more from that young stud that you are.


 
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Many thanks again for your reply guys

The problem is I cannot do this whole Kino thing as when I see this woman we are not always close to each other. I need to be able to seduce her completely by words. Do you know how to do that? I have been reading about fractionation which is said to be a way to get a woman wanting you within 15 minutes. The problem is I don't quite understand how fractionation works, I read about it. The basic principle is to get her thinking in some way. You lay a something hot for her to think about and then drop something real cold on her. It's this constant hot and cold thought processing that builds up a way for her to become attracted to you and even go crazy for you. But how do you do it?


 
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many older women like to chase younger guys. first to create interest you have to be funny. as soon as she laughs interlace flirty with funny and adventurous and shes yours buddy. all a matter of being lucky that she is either single or not faithfull(if shes married is likely shes faithfull).


 
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many older women like to chase younger guys. first to create interest you have to be funny. as soon as she laughs interlace flirty with funny and adventurous and shes yours buddy. all a matter of being lucky that she is either single or not faithfull(if shes married is likely shes faithfull).
Thanks for your reply

The thing is, as I only see this woman at appointments. I don't have a lot of time to try anything, probably max 30 minutes. It just doesn't feel comfortable to do all the flirty, funny and adventurous talk to a married lady.

I need to get her thinking like the way Ross Jeffries does it. Here is a routine, tell me what you think?

Hello Michelle (I never called her by her first name before, but she calls me by my first name even my nickname)

Michelle: Hi Nick

Nick: How are you?

Michelle: Good, how are you, I haven't seen you for a long time?

Nick: I'm all right,

Michelle: take a seat

Nick: I must say in these two years that have past your still looking absolutely breathtaking.

Michelle: I'm married

Nick: So you keep saying

Anyway later after talking about this and that I say

Nick: I never imagined you being the sort of lady to marry someone in the medical profession.

Michelle: What do you mean

Nick: Well you know how it is, the way you carry yourself you do it with a lot of grace and elegance which I have to say I find very attractive and for that reason I just thought you would end up with someone with some power and influence that moves you in amazing ways.

Michelle: ah wow

I don't know really, that's a little script I came up with a while ago. It's probably a crazy thing to say. That last bit is a mix of Ross jeffries and my own wording. Would it work?

It's better if I could find a way to get her sitting next to me which would probably be difficult at least that way I could run some Kino first, like make it seems like I brush her knees by accident, if she's interested and doesn't move her leg then I can go with the sentences above.

Just how do I get her to sit next to me?



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ummm...being professional she will probably find that a little creepy. All you need to do is make her laugh and smile and make some funny memories. Cause then as you keep seeing her, when she thinks about you, you will be associated will good feelings. But really. Being a doctor and not regularly seeing her, i think you should just give up on her cause you dont see her long enough or often enough to try and get her in bed. And then being married, its just the wrong circumstances. You need to stop thinking about her so much, obviously you have one girl syndrome and have been thinking about her and wanting her too long. If you have been doing this for years, you need to just give up. I dont think its worth it. But you can always try


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