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I remember starting this thread a long time ago. When I started using push/pull i couldn't believe it's results and how few men knew about it, I wanted everyone who haden't heard about it to know about it and wanted everyone that knew about it to teach me more. Let's face it, it's not that good of a thread for this good of a technique. So that's why i decided to update it.

What is Push/Pull?:

It is a VERY powerful technique used to create attraction and sexual tension that consists of driving the momentem between two people back and forth during the interaction. In other words IOI her then IOD her (verbal or non verbal) or vice versa repeatedly. This will create a roller coaster of emotions in women, a ride that they love, and it will help in prizing urself which is also key to attraction and getting any woman. Imagine going one month without sex or knocking off how good and how satisfied will u feel after doing it, after surpressing that desire for so long then releasing it. That is the concept of Push/Pull.

Why Push/Pull?:

Women attract differently to men. In order to attract a women u have to trigger her emotions, why not be responsable for triggering them on then off then on again? Thus creating the sexual tension and the attraction. Btw women do Push/Pull some say they are masters of it that might be but when a girl tries to do it on me i immediately recognize it and I flat out say she's doing it, but when it comes to them they don't know how to react to it other then to succumb. I think it's becuz they don't think that guys are that good at mind games and if a guy is doing that to her it probably means he's genuinely on the fence about her which makes her want him more.

When To Push/Pull:

Whenever u want but not in comfort u'll look like an ass. Put urself in the HB's shoes u like this guy and u're trying to build rapport with him and all he does is joke around. Break rapport to pull away but use freeze outs to do so.


How to Push/Pull?:

  • Get in the mindset that u are the prize. If the HB senses that u are hesitant and beeing fake she will see them as lines and as feable attempts.
  • Be playful and funny, guys don't hurt theese girls.
  • Know how to calibrate the pushs with the pulls: Don't tell a girl she's the ugliest and most disgusting girl in the world and then tell her that she has nice ear rings. Also, don't over push nore do u over pull.
  • Complimentes are Pulls and teases are Pushes.
  • Undermining: Tell a girl " u're the hottest girl i've met....in the last ten minutes.". Another example of this is ranking u tell her "OMG u have a breathtakingly beautiful smile.....it's the third best i've seen 2night"
  • Use u're body language: Say u're in a 2set or more compliment the HB on something, tell her friends she's cute, while at the same time turning u're back to her and pointnig to her with u're thumb.
  • Freeze outs.
  • With kino two steps forward and one step back will be great for push/pull: one step forward one step back=pervert. This is of course before seduction takes place.
Push/Pull you can't afford not to do:
  • Beeing the first to end the conversation.
  • Calling her for the first time and not asking her out on a date.
  • Breaking Rapport (Freeze Out)
  • Arguing with her.
  • Beeing the first to pull away from the kiss when it happens.
  • IOD her when she IOD's you.
  • Judging
  • Challenging her responses
Collection of Push/Pull lines:
  1. Part of me wants to stay here with you, but another part wants to run away!
  2. You are either: the coolest girl I've ever met OR a total weirdo
  3. You are the coolest girls I've talked to…in the last 15 minutes!
  4. You're either really smart…or a total bimbo!
  5. You could be a model if taller and thiner.
  6. Hug a girl then whisper in her ear I hate u so much.
  7. I just love the way u kiss my neck, it's so sexy I've only known three girls that can do it as equaly good.
Other techniques for push and pull:
  1. The Cat String Theory.
  2. Bait-Hook-Reel-Release.
  3. Suave Kino's Bombshell Methode.
Lastly, feel free to add on!



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I love your shoes I think I've seen some little kids use them before..
You hold her hand And when she gts closer you back away a little...
Those r the only ones I know thanks for your post!!!!

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Main thing friends is to remember to smile when you neg, make sure you neg in a playing way or you can come off as a real asshole. Neg's are so much fun though.

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u're nails r very long r they acrylic?
u're hair is very long r they extensions?
go hug her hard then say i hate u soooo much (no smiles)


 
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I love your shirt, my mom/little sister/favorite cousin has one just like it.
Anything that starts with "You're kinda interesting, too bad you're..."
If you didn't remeind me so much of my little sister/cousin, you might actually work.
and don't forget the physical ones that say a lot more than these. grab a hold of her pants or shirt and push her into oncoming car, bike, people walking toward you. Then pull her back.


 
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same as jtp said but u can tweak it in ure approach its a tad balsy though:
Hey u look like a girl that would have an interesting point of view(much more excited girl) but i could only stay a sec
her: blah blah
me: i was wrong that wasn't interesting (pause put my hand on her shoulder) at ALL! huge smile to top it off
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Whats happening here is good ,but it become too routine orientated instead of skill orientated ,iv developed my skill ,and now i can pull using wat i say and push using body language or vice versa

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I remember starting this thread a long time ago. When I started using push/pull i couldn't believe it's results and how few men knew about it, I wanted everyone who haden't heard about it to know about it and wanted everyone that knew about it to teach me more. Let's face it, it's not that good of a thread for this good of a technique. So that's why i decided to update it.

What is Push/Pull?:

It is a VERY powerful technique used to create attraction and sexual tension that consists of driving the momentem between two people back and forth during the interaction. In other words IOI her then IOD her (verbal or non verbal) or vice versa repeatedly. This will create a roller coaster of emotions in women, a ride that they love, and it will help in prizing urself which is also key to attraction and getting any woman. Imagine going one month without sex or knocking off how good and how satisfied will u feel after doing it, after surpressing that desire for so long then releasing it. That is the concept of Push/Pull.

Why Push/Pull?:

Women attract differently to men. In order to attract a women u have to trigger her emotions, why not be responsable for triggering them on then off then on again? Thus creating the sexual tension and the attraction. Btw women do Push/Pull some say they are masters of it that might be but when a girl tries to do it on me i immediately recognize it and I flat out say she's doing it, but when it comes to them they don't know how to react to it other then to succumb. I think it's becuz they don't think that guys are that good at mind games and if a guy is doing that to her it probably means he's genuinely on the fence about her which makes her want him more.

When To Push/Pull:

Whenever u want but not in comfort u'll look like an ass. Put urself in the HB's shoes u like this guy and u're trying to build rapport with him and all he does is joke around. Break rapport to pull away but use freeze outs to do so.


How to Push/Pull?:

  • Get in the mindset that u are the prize. If the HB senses that u are hesitant and beeing fake she will see them as lines and as feable attempts.
  • Be playful and funny, guys don't hurt theese girls.
  • Know how to calibrate the pushs with the pulls: Don't tell a girl she's the ugliest and most disgusting girl in the world and then tell her that she has nice ear rings. Also, don't over push nore do u over pull.
  • Complimentes are Pulls and teases are Pushes.
  • Undermining: Tell a girl " u're the hottest girl i've met....in the last ten minutes.". Another example of this is ranking u tell her "OMG u have a breathtakingly beautiful smile.....it's the third best i've seen 2night"
  • Use u're body language: Say u're in a 2set or more compliment the HB on something, tell her friends she's cute, while at the same time turning u're back to her and pointnig to her with u're thumb.
  • Freeze outs.
  • With kino two steps forward and one step back will be great for push/pull: one step forward one step back=pervert. This is of course before seduction takes place.
Push/Pull you can't afford not to do:
  • Beeing the first to end the conversation.
  • Calling her for the first time and not asking her out on a date.
  • Breaking Rapport (Freeze Out)
  • Arguing with her.
  • Beeing the first to pull away from the kiss when it happens.
  • IOD her when she IOD's you.
Collection of Push/Pull lines:
  1. Part of me wants to stay here with you, but another part wants to run away!
  2. You are either: the coolest girl I've ever met OR a total weirdo
  3. You are the coolest girls I've talked to…in the last 15 minutes!
  4. You're either really smart…or a total bimbo!
  5. You could be a model if taller and thiner.
  6. Hug a girl then whisper in her ear I hate u so much.
  7. I just love the way u kiss my neck, it's so sexy I've only known three girls that can do it as equaly good.
Other techniques for push and pull:
  1. The Cat String Theory.
  2. Bait-Hook-Reel-Release.
  3. Suave Kino's Bombshell Methode.
Lastly, feel free to add on!

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The way i perceive neg....is like making her a compliment for something she doesn’t have and wishes to have!

Many guys fall to the trap insulting her, believing they are neging her as a result of poor inner game!

Yesterday night I herd the sh1t of my life…….

She said…..I am marred with I child…
That’s cool I said, What’s the name of the child……
Mary she answered.
So what o marred girl like you is doing in a place like this with I guy like me?
………ha ha ha!


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This is an amazing Post, Xavier.
I did push/pull here and there, not knowing that it is a thing though.
I am going to a Rez Halloween party this weekend in a City I never been before and will definitely try a lot of push/pull ing and this time on purpose.

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