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View Poll Results: What is your number one sticking point?

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  • Approaching Women

    81 24.62%
  • Talking To Women

    58 17.63%
  • Getting Women To Become Attracted To You

    83 25.23%
  • Keeping Women Attracted To You

    86 26.14%
  • Getting A Girl To Kiss You

    38 11.55%
  • Getting A Girls Number

    24 7.29%
  • Having Great Dates

    33 10.03%
  • Getting And Keeping A Girlfriend

    52 15.81%
  • Getting Laid

    57 17.33%
  • All Of The Above

    77 23.40%
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Thread: Help Me Help You - A Special Request From Bill Preston

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    Default Re: Help Me Help You - A Special Request From Bill Preston

    I have ticked ''Keeping Women Attracted''. I basically have no problems building attraction or anything. Girls tell me ''you are cool'' pretty fast but from that point i can't help it. I place some light negs and stuff but they somehow overreact, or is that only a shit test then?

    - Michael

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    Default Re: Help Me Help You - A Special Request From Bill Preston

    I'll take that as a compliment, Bill. I read a lot of theory over the past year so I recognize a lot of the questions asked here being tackled in theory I've read. I just spread the words I read.

    The video idea sounds good. I hear that number (3 girls) a lot and it's what I'd like to achieve. I'm sure I can do it if I just find my balls so I can start practising.

    Fearless is sold out. I might go for MrPUAToYou's advice and get the "Obliterating Approach Anxiety" package. Thanks for that, MrPUAToYou.


    EDIT: As I refreshed, Fearless got back with like 2400 new copies. There's a counter in the corner. It looks really good and I'd like to get it but it'll have to wait for a while till I get some cash. Up until then I'll keep on trying on my own. I'm in the field multiple times a week so it might happen any day. I'll post in my field report thread when I make my first real approach.
    Last edited by Virgil; 02-01-2012 at 04:33 PM.

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    Default Re: Help Me Help You - A Special Request From Bill Preston

    honestly i clicked all of the above. My biggest problem is, approaching women and keeping them interested as they are attracted to me, but within mere seconds of me talking to them they r completely turned off by me and i have no clue why. I need help immediately

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    Default Re: Help Me Help You - A Special Request From Bill Preston

    also i am just getting out a very serious and traumatic relationship where i had contracted and still suffer from serious oneitis

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    Default Re: Help Me Help You - A Special Request From Bill Preston

    Hi Mikhail,

    Regarding: "...place some light negs and stuff but they somehow overreact, or is that only a sh1t test then?"

    Personally, I have found that things work much better for me when I don't use negs and when I don't look at things through the typical "sh1t test" perspective.

    One thing I learned is that using negs takes me out of the moment, I start to focus on becoming more of a robot that must insert the right neg at the right time, etc, and I lose my natural sense of presence in the moment, which is much more powerful.

    A woman can size up your "inner game" really quickly, as David DeAngelo has often said, and the very belief in the need of having to use a neg actually tells your mind that you don't think you can pull a woman without the use of the neg.

    Using a neg subconsciously lowers your own sense of empowerment and confidence, it weakens your belief that you really do have the value to attract her, and it reinforces the belief that you can only get a woman if you artificially make her feel she is less than she really is, or less than she thinks she is.

    Instead, take the belief that you have infinite value, and focus on listening to her when she speaks so that you can actually have great feedback to give her, and also this will allow you to enjoy the conversation in a more natural way.

    Rather than worrying about sh1t tests, just dump any woman who is rude to you, there is no excuse for rude behavior no matter what. The only kind of test that is a good test that is worth responding to is when a woman wants to push you to be the best man you can be.

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    Post Re: Help Me Help You - A Special Request From Bill Preston

    Hey Bill,

    Thanks for the comment ... kind of opened my eyes! =)

    - Michael

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    Default Re: Help Me Help You - A Special Request From Bill Preston

    I have all the confidence in the world I dnt have a problem approaching and talking to women. Its just taking it from there where I have a problem, I especially need help in phone and text area

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    Default Re: Help Me Help You - A Special Request From Bill Preston

    I've selected Getting And Keeping A Girlfriend
    The reason I clicked this may be different from why others selected it.
    When it comes to dating, I fall seldom and when i do, i fall hard. I only get attracted to one girl at a time. As a result, it leads to one-itis. Because that girl is the only girl I care about, I show all my cards and scare her off with being too needy and caring.
    I'm unable to get interested in other girls except for quick emotionless fixes. I find myself not caring whether I even score or not. My problem is I just don't care and cant get interested. As a result of not caring and not being interested, I have no problem getting girls and closing again and again. But that satisfaction doesnt last for me, no matter how often I do it. The issue arises after. As soon as I'm done, I just want to leave or want her to leave. There are times when I will purposely try and finish as fast as possible just so I can get off and get out without having to do anything else like cuddle. The other week at a club, a HB7 literally told me to take her home. But since she would have to spend the night and I didn't want her staying longer than our session, I turned her down. Solely on that reason; I actually really wanted to close her.

    The thing that would truly satisfy me would be to finally just get a girl i care about. Unfortunately I can only seem to care about one girl every 2-3 years and as a result, I mess up by transforming from the guy that doesnt care, to the guy that cares too much. I dont know whats wrong with me or why I feel this lack of emotion towards everything except that one girl, but I dont like it

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    Default Re: Help Me Help You - A Special Request From Bill Preston

    Keeping the convo going and in the right direction. I can open anyone with either a canned opener or observational opener. It's easy to find *something* to say. But to keep going in a way that's congruent rather than schizophrenic is harder. I also have learned to display confident or friendly or flirtatious body language, but again a fluid conversation would add a lot.

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    Default Re: Help Me Help You - A Special Request From Bill Preston

    I NEED HELP! DONT EVEN KNOW WERE TO START. THERE IS SO MUCH INFORMATION OUT THERE. IS THERE A WAY TO FIND A LOCAL PUA? SOME ONE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!


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