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View Poll Results: What is your number one sticking point?

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  • Approaching Women

    81 24.62%
  • Talking To Women

    58 17.63%
  • Getting Women To Become Attracted To You

    83 25.23%
  • Keeping Women Attracted To You

    86 26.14%
  • Getting A Girl To Kiss You

    38 11.55%
  • Getting A Girls Number

    24 7.29%
  • Having Great Dates

    33 10.03%
  • Getting And Keeping A Girlfriend

    52 15.81%
  • Getting Laid

    57 17.33%
  • All Of The Above

    77 23.40%
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Thread: Help Me Help You - A Special Request From Bill Preston

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    Default Re: Help Me Help You - A Special Request From Bill Preston

    Dang Bill! I don't have any of those problems. My problems are different. 1) Cutting off a relationship w/o hurting the woman 2) Finding wings (most guys think I'm too old or consider me competition).
    Carpe diem!

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    Default Re: Help Me Help You - A Special Request From Bill Preston

    My biggest sticking point, without a doubt. Is dealing with AMOG's familiar to the girls I'm opening. So many times I've opened the group, started to get buying temp through the roof and then out of nowhere a guy or group of guys the girls will already know will come into the set and attention instantly shifts to them and I get blown out as if I never existed.

    This is especially true in the clubs and bars where certain guys are regulars there and know every chick in the place that comes in. I'm not a regular in any particular venue so I'm always a stranger compared to these guys. How to keep my sets attention when some hot attention whore who looks like he just stepped out of Jersey Shore is at the venue every weekend and knows the chicks already, has a high established social value in the venue, etc and they blow me out fairly easily. That is the my biggest problem by far, more than anything else.

    I can deal with chodes, and your usual losers quite easily. My problem are those big, naturally alpha studs that seem to always home in on me. It's like they see this skinny little guy getting his game on and decide to steal my thunder out of simple spite. Nothing confrontational or assholish. Hell the guys could easily be my friends in any other circumstance, but definitely not when I'm trying to run my game.

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    Default Re: Help Me Help You - A Special Request From Bill Preston

    A good friend of mine has said simply if there is a girl you like, well you just have to tell her simply by stating "I think you're very nice or pretty".

    But I know of the different openers one can use now.

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    Default Re: Help Me Help You - A Special Request From Bill Preston

    I clicked on all the above... Simple fact being that I am 29 years old, living in a city that is full of life and culture, yet I can't get nothing right when it comes to getting it right with women. And to add to that, I used to be in the military and that is suppose to add social proof of sorts and a major boost of confidence, yet still not enough for the women here. I know im doing more than one thing wrong, especially if I have only been with only 3 women within my entire life. That is why I clicked it, I need a major change including to my self esteem and confidence. I joined this forum for that very reason, change of lifestyle all together. Im only a few days into this forums, yet have been studying and reading allot of literature and watching certain videos for about 2 weeks now (going 3 weeks in a day or so after this post).

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    Default Re: Help Me Help You - A Special Request From Bill Preston

    Approach. Hands down. It's not that I have AA, I can approach women nbd, but I go to a pretty small university where girls know girls. I'm afraid that they'll know of me and I'll eventually have no anonymity.
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    Default Re: Help Me Help You - A Special Request From Bill Preston

    Quote Originally Posted by mr.onethousand View Post
    Approach. Hands down. It's not that I have AA, I can approach women nbd, but I go to a pretty small university where girls know girls. I'm afraid that they'll know of me and I'll eventually have no anonymity.
    Keep this in mind... pretend that you don't know that they know anything. it helps allot when you have that mentality because it makes you look more innocent than guilty. Just keep in mind that when you have to prove yourself, to be completely confident of yourself. Also... you got to go in there like you own the place, add value to yourself and make yourself as alpha as possible. When you become like a king of the crop, every girl will see you differently and want you. The more girls, the merrrier! be friends with some of them and watch how the other girls will come around the corner and try to get into the convo.... once that happens, I neg her right off the bat, but not neg her too hard. Push Pull will do best here. From there, you should be able handle it with ease, just stay confident and hold your ground.

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    Default Re: Help Me Help You - A Special Request From Bill Preston

    Well mines kinda weird and different. Since i was young i always never attracted girls so i gave up and don't even try to pick up girls anymore. My game now a days is go out to make girls flirt, look, and chase me! Its actually the funnest thing in the world to me and its a great mental training to reinsurance ones self confidence.

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    Default Re: Help Me Help You - A Special Request From Bill Preston

    I'm still bad at having a conversational with women and people in general. I am still trying to still figure it out and learn.

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    Default Re: Help Me Help You - A Special Request From Bill Preston

    I'd like to give a thanks ahead of time for the knowledge I am hoping to gain. I have found that I have never been good with opening sets/ approaching any lady, I usually wait for my friends to start the convo, then I can usually handle my end of a conversation, but nothing special, no numbers, emails and closing in general is extremely difficult. I need a social make over and to rebuild/ build my confidence so it displays outwardly, please help.

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    Default Re: Help Me Help You - A Special Request From Bill Preston

    i dont have a proble with my approach and building attraction..as far as i know i think im good at that...my problem is the texting. i come off as this great outgoing guy, but than we start texting and it all goes down hill from there..

    ive ruined my chances with a few girls because my texting sucks...i know i put to much thought into a text, but i cant help it...

    i cant cold approach ive notice when im alone compaired to when im with someone...i can but i choose not too. again i put to much thought into it..
    A man is but a product of his thoughts. What he thinks, he becomes -Mahatma Gandhi


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