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Picking up women can be a difficult task at times, therefore making it important for men to have good openers. Those aspiring to be pick-up artists spend a number of hours thinking of good openers but in reality the pick-up line is only the first step. Although the ability to open is key in setting up an initial spark between the male and female, the success or failure will be far more dependent on a number of other factors as well. With that said, learning a good opener at this site will go a long ways in meeting new people and more specifically, meeting new women.

The first question that often comes to mind of new pick-up artists is whether the opener should be canned or spontaneous. Many of those new to pick-up lines will think that a spontaneous opener will be than one that is rehearsed. Beginners tend to think that a canned opening will sound false or that the woman will call them out for using a rehearsed line. This could not be further from the truth. A rehearsed canned opener can often sound better and more original than one that is made up on the spot. There is simple reasoning behind this. For example, if you were writing an essay, would the essay sound better if it were rehearsed or made up on the spot. The rehearsed essay would probably garner higher marks. This is the same with canned openers. Another reason for this rational is that an opener you come up based on surroundings may occur to others as well and the woman may have heard it already that night.

One of the most common types is the opinion opener. With this type of opener the pick-up artist uses an opening line, such as a “jealous girlfriend” line, in order to set the mood in which the pick-up artist and the woman are disagreeing. Once the woman is engaged in the conversation, the pick up artist acts as if he is going to leave once she disagrees with his statement, often employing body language. The pick-up artist then continues to dig into the situation, further increasing the disagreement. This is one of the best PUA Openers because it is one that creates a situation in which both people will have strong opinions in the form of disagreement. A good opener has to evoke some type of emotional reaction from the opposing party in order to be effective. Just like the perfect text message will make her smile, the right opener will work wonders.

Another effective type of opener is the observation opener and it is massively powerful when used correctly. This type of opener is pretty easy and straightforward because it is based on the surroundings in the room. All the pick-up artist has to do is notice something interesting about the room, or even about the woman, and share it with her. In order for this type of opener to be effective the observation has to be something interesting and not obvious. An example of an ineffective observational opener would be “The music in this club is really loud.” This is a comment that will almost always get ignored by the opposite sex. An observational opener is great for those with cold-reading sills because good observations will demonstrate that you have value and are not just laying down an opener.

Humor openers are always a hit and can usually get a good laugh out of the target. Of the most common humorous openers is to take note of something that absolutely appropriate within the area but then claim that it is not allowed. A simple of example of this is “Is that a cell phone? That isn’t allowed in here.” The objective is to obviously get a laugh but it is even better if the target begins to role-play with you. This will only lead to more conversation.

Laying down good openers can be a lot of work but it only gets better with practice. Once the opener has been put out there, only half the work is done. Some of the openers mentioned will lead right to conversation and it is your responsibility to keep the conversation going. Some will not lead into conversation so whatever you do next is even more important than the opener. Just stay cool and calm and the rest will fall in place.

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