I havent posted in a while, but this is getting silly.
I am an expert at gym closes, you wont find one person on this planet who has more experience than me. Yes, obnoxious, but I spend 12 hours a day in the gym and at least 8 of those hours hitting on and picking up women in the roughest town for pick up that you can find. I do this 6 days a week. I manage and train personal trainers, I work in a gym.
On top of that - I get 30 solid numbers a week; its my job, and the hot ones turn into dates - I rock at this and will put my money up against any wannabe PUA - if you have a rip off mystery method e-book - that would be you.
The most important thing to pick up is -
a) give up on club game, farking waste of time that makes for good videos to sell products, anyone can act a clown and get a phone number, most of your idols dont get a call back; ive met them, trust me; - you can day close easier and find better women, this coming from a guy that goes out at night on dates, not pick up adventures, that takes care of itself during the day. I go out with a woman 5-7 days a week, and it isnt work, its pleasure, there is no goal other than fun, no matter where it ends, I will have fun.
b) you need to love yourself, you need to be 100% sure that if she puts her trust in you and takes it to the next level, you are going to give her the absolute best time ever, that no man has ever given her, believe this, let this be your focus in pick up - you are giving your awesome self to her, and it will just happen, minus any method. If you are 100% sure that she will love it, she just will, otherwise shes ill and saved you the time.
c) once you've been on 100 good dates over a 6 month period, you wont have to do anything to seem high value; Push Pull will happen automatically, be you, and make sure that your awesome; not by someone else's standards, by your own; this happens with trial and error. The guy that goes on 30 bad dates in a row has more experience than the guy polishing his skills in his basement. For gods sake, go out and get rejected, and it will just happen. you cant feel bad about one persons choices, only your own, and if you had the balls to try, thats success.
d)If you want to rock the gym, get in good shape, learn a ton about fitness, and walk by, say something nice, like "cool shoes" and help her out "I noticed you were using this ab machine, did you know that your back and core are basically what stabilizes you, but when you are on a machine, that becomes your core, it doesn't make sense, can I show you something awesome real quick?" and then show her a cool ab workout that makes her feel it, say "hey, we should workout sometime" get her number, and invite her to do something fun later, and every no you hear, means not yet, and expect 6 no's for a hot chic before she says yes. It will turn into just yes' in time.
e) listen in detail to everything that EVERYONE says, and be completely interested. Just listening and paying attention will put you ahead of all of the rest of these losers. Be in your body, not your head, I focus on the tips of my fingers and toes to get out of my head, it will work better that way, stop thinking and just be you.
You're mom was right, just be yourself, just make sure that you are happy with who you are. Be social, be interested, be interesting. Live a life where you wake up with a fat smile every single day while being alone before you ever think you can rock someone else's world
We all came here for a reason, I came to pick up because I didnt know how to attract even my own girlfriend, it wasnt till I gave up and just lived for me that I outscored anyone you can find, in career, in happiness, in friendships, in social life, and in love. By the way, shes still begging for me back after breaking up with me 6 months ago and living 5,000 miles away, but I do care for her and do my best to help her move on. Im not a prick - I live life for pleasure not pain, I want everyone in my life to be enhanced by me, any moron and be a d1ck, it takes a real man to be a good friend, but you gotta live by your standards, and they are yours, not what someone "guru" tell you they should be.
I do gym pick up at least 10 times a day, get rejected more than not, and still go on a new date almost every night of the week. I dont fark most of them, I am enough of a mushy bastard that sex makes me feel too connected and I know that I dont want a relationship.
Dont worry about being cool; whats awsome for one person is lame for another, worry about being completely satisfied with who and what you are. Most of you came here to find a girlfriend and feel accepted, accept yourself first; This isnt the life for most - if you really lived like "they" claim to you will be miserable, trust me. Sex is minor when it isnt about having a females acceptance, but learning her heart and soul and connecting, is priceless.
Do that.