here are some great openers to try

Look into Alexander method that might help with the looking nervous thing.

Btw aa never goes away. You just learn to deal with it. There are some simple exercises you can do to help with it. Tomorrow go to some public place and try to have a casual conversation with 3 strangers. Doesn't matter what about just talk. Make good eye contact and speak to them.

I won't get into it now since I am typing on an iPhone, but there is a idea of preopeners. Things like eye contact and body language that make opening a set better.

yeah to be honest im still fighting aa. it something hard to overcome for some. for others its as easy as pie. but for others its just really hard.

Oh come on chris it's just a pebble in your shoe. Ignore it. Lol

Yes, honestly opening is so f'ing easy. Most think it's the hardest part but you can easily make that come to you with the right body language and look of strong self confidence. Girls will see this in you. I opened a good 3 sets tonight, I failed in all of them but got the opener and it was no magic they came to me. They looked me in the eye and I made a comment about the drinking, and it was cake. Nothing more than being up at the bar and noticing my surroundings. I'm trying to build a series of openers based at the actual bar, when girls take shots and stuff. Its a good place to open. You get opportunity and you don't look desperate. Anyone with experience in this area please speak up so we can make a formula. More to come as tomorrow I will write my first field report.

hahah thanks for the advice guys.. yah aa is definitely something im learning to deal with, its frustrating as hell

its tough dude but you can get through it. If you need help with it send me a PM and ill see what i can do for you

thanks t