How To Open A Girl In The Street

I have to say I prefer situational openers. Of course, there is less freedom for your choice of girl because the situation has to be right, but the strike rate is definitely much better. Plus, the more you use situational openers, the more accessible they are in your head and you can use them more often.
The most recent one I used was when I saw a girl fixing her hair in the reflection of a window..I came up and I asked "hey, who's your friend, she's kind of cute..can you introduce me" while motioning to her reflection. From there the Number Close was easy since she was laughing, and I think felt a bit insecure that i'd spotted her checking herself out. hah.

hey!

i am now glad to share with you the way i've successfully approached many girls and women (among whom there were also some steaming hot lesbians at my greatest surprise) that i instantly spot on the street, for example. and, i am very confident that you can also easily copy it and hugely benefit from it whenever and wherever you like.

by the way, i must tell you though that the approaches i will now reveal to you work best in some sudden new situations you find yourself in when being out and about. what do i mean under some sudden new situations?

here, i mean the kind of situation where let's say you're walking down the street and then you turn left or right to a new street, for example. now, let's assume, that as soon as you hit that corner when turning into that new street, you suddenly spot an extremely beautiful girl that's let's say, only 3 meters away from you while walking towards you.

now, what i normally do is as soon as i see her walking towards me and as soon as i come close enough to her, i kind of instantly wide open my eyes while directly looking into her eyes as if I am hugely suprised for meeting her and say: "hey, (make a little 2 second pause while still looking into her eyes with a sort of great surprise expression on your face)...I know you." (make another 3 second pause and watch her reaction). there are usually three ways she might react to that approach, and they are:
1) she ignores you and keeps walking past you
2) she quickly cuts you by saying: "no, i don't you" or "no, you don't me" (this reaction always makes me laugh because how she can be certain that i don't know her ), and then she keeps walking past you.
3) she stops and curiously locks eyes with you, and here in most cases she even gives you a warm smile as well.

if the latter is the case, you then relaxedly and calmly say to her: "let me be honest with you. i didn't know you but i now know you and would like to get to know you better." now, in most cases, at your great surprise, the girl in this situation doesn't run away but gives you even warmer smile, then subconsciously agrees and tells you that she also might know you and most importantly absolutely falls for your super confidence approaching her this very unusual and funny way. some girls even directly gave me their compliments for my approach exactly for that unusual way I made them feel special and great.

what happens here is a few very important things:

a) you are talking with a fun, outgoing girl. in other words, by now you've effectively qualified her interest in or at least her curiosity about you. otherwise, she would certainly fall into the category of the two other girls that i've described under 1) and 2) above.

b) she's first of all enjoying your confidence and then the fun way you're now communicating with her

c) most importantly, whether you're aware of this or not, what you've just done is that you've successfully managed to instantly trigger her super emotional attraction for you before she knows it.

practically, you've kind of created an instant rollercoaster of both her naturally initial cautious reaction to your approach and her super excitement for now enjoying your fun company as a result of your alpha male confidence whether she's aware of it or not. in other words, you've super successfully created a mixure of her "bad" and positive feelings about your approach that all results in her subconsciously delivering a magnetic emotional attraction for you in no time.

by the way, this exact way i also managed to get a few smoking hot lesbian girl who not only immediately swapped their phone numbers with me and kissed me after our short 3 minute chat, but also self initiatively asked me out and paid for my drinks and dinner on either our next meeting or even on the same day immediately after this super powerful 3 second rule approach.

now, if you really understand how triggering her emotional attraction works, you can freely experiment with similar easy direct approaches like this one and then choose the one that best suits your personality and most importantly results in the biggest success rate.

hope this kind of approach helps you improve your daytime game.

talk to you later!
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Hi!

I absolutely agree with you that openers should not be a big deal at all.

Likewise I used them many times just by observing the situation that I and my target have found ourselves in, and then simply go ahead and fit my approach to it.

As long as you combine your approaching confidence with your kind of sense of humor, you're good to go.

Speaking of situational openers or the so called "pacing her ongoing reality" situations that some PUAs like to describe it as, you can absolutely free your mind of having to remember any canned openers or pick up lines.

I believe that practising situational openers should even more drastically improve the guy's confidence approaching any girl at any situation and at any time.

Having said that, from my experience I must say that funnily enough I have realized that the more sudden or the more unexpected the situation to Approach A Girl it seems to be, the more successful the guy who is approaching this way will be. Why?

Exactly because of the super powerful effect of being able to successfully trigger her emotional attraction as she's suddenly and excitedly taken by surprise.

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The best for me is if I am walking by a girl i normal say excuse me do you know where ( a building you might no). She might yes or no if not then keep walking. Or try "I know you" this works a lot for me. I usually tell the girl i know them and i keep it going for a while.

Haha sweet! I think yours, is among the first posts any newbie should read. Determination gets you far, folks!

This thread is very interesting to me. The most dedicated people will succeed, just like our friend chance here, he rolled with the punches and he got the reward ( well part of it), I think it comes down to be willing to sacrafice more than other guys and being more determined to succeed as a pia. roll with the punches 'its not how hard you can hit that counts, but how hard you can GET hit and keep moving forward'' Im gonna go this week or this weekend and gonna start my target of 100 approaches, will keep u guys posted!

Can you just go and walk next to a girl and open? I mean when somebody has actually something to do you'll have to make them think you're more interesting than whatever else they're doing.. so a Opener that creates interest is?

Ya man, situational openers. If I draw a blank, I carry a growing back of tricks with me now (jokes, observations, palm-reading) to throw out.
Good point from Style, a line he got from Wayne Gretzky I believe:

"you miss 100% of the shots you don't take"

I'm sure you can translate that.. but basically you're working back from that haha. There's more to it of course, but I really like that line for how simple it says it.

Come at her at an angle and talk like you got it in the bag. Then after that your poking her face.

3 years later and im saying good luck . I want to start these things. I feel aged and lost somewhere. (well actually i look half my age). Does anyone know a really basic one for, hmm a shy guy like me who doesnt really know what to say to begin with? And possibly how to say it? I remember back in high school a girl looked unhappy and i randomly walked up to her in the class and told her to smile (I at the time was laughing). She just looked at me. Luckily she had her friends around her, so I slowly moved away. (I guess i just didn't know what to do then (this was a time where i felt i wasn't even shy, but looking at it, it still seems i was lol)).