best opener i found so far

Actually any Opener works, its just how you convey it as well as transition afterwards

As i was reading through these posts i figured you could also use some form of "I bet you _drink, dance,kiss,number etc_____ we have something in common?" and then point to the stamp or bracelet. what you bet depends on what stage of the conversation you're in.

It's really simple, but yeah it almost always works.

Giving a girl a genuine compliment can work. Sometimes you see something real cool on a girl or learn about something she does or believes that you find awesome, and it's ok to compliment her as long as it's general. Notice that Mr8Hyde6 specifically complimented the girl's skirt. He was real specific. Compliments do work as long as their both genuine and specific (not something like "you look sexy." She heard that from 20 other involuntary celibates that night). I think too many guys read "The Game" and stuff and come away thinking they can never compliment a woman or something, when it's not true, you just have to do it in the right way.

IMO the best Opener ever is simply asking about a girl's book, laptop, phone, whatever. Just at least act real interested in it and ask questions, and then go from there. The easiest opener is when you're in a class or something with a girl, because all you need to do to open her is talk about the class or whatever. Too easy.

Momento --- love it but I believe that will work only once you have talked to her and moved back to your table to talk to your friends...
the simple HI is great.. but also the comment is a huge plus,,,, but you have to understand women,,, shoes and handbags.. dont call them purses.. you have to understand that they are called handbags.. comment her handbag because usually that's what they always carry and why should a man comment on a handbag. That will surely put her eyes on you and then you can go back and ask for her name give another small ice breaker and keep the conversation going... but if she or you leave the location make sure you give her your number.

OBSERVE really well what she's wearing, try to look for the smallest detail and comment on that. For ex: nails, a ring, earings and ask her where she got it because you're looking to get one for your little sister or something like that, that will show you're a sweet guy

im not a fan of complimenting a chick, I can do it but for me, i feel its a waste of time. I just wanna get to the point and ask them out. my openers are pretty direct.

I love those openers... but my question is after you guys start talking about their dresses, how do you transistion it and change the topic? It would seem silly me to be having a conversation about her dress or whatever for more then five minutes.

By start talking about her dress you can ask her where she got it (if she says she got it from another country or city) you can ask her if she leaves there, if she went there on vacation and start from there...