I personally use this with no matter the degree of hotness. This is how the convo would go. Introduce touching and such as it feels comfortable.
*Walk up to her next to the bar or where ever*
Me: Wow excuse me, but you're invading my personal space (w/ seriousness)
Her: Oh I'm sorry (and gives me a little space)
Me: Thanks, didn't know if being polite was encoded in your manual (slight laugh)
Her: *various replies* Smiles but then I raise my finger as if im telling her to stop
Me: Hmmmm (look her up and down, and make sure she sees you doing so) tsk tsk
Her: What?
Me: HMMMMM (with my hand on my chin as if im thinking while being goofy) is this all?
Her: Is what all?
Me: Is THIS (point to her up and down) it? *slight laugh*
Her: What do you mean?
Me: Is this all you have to offer? *cocky laugh*
Her: No.. *and as shes talking interrupt her*
Me: Well I'm just being real, you can stand your value as I do mine and we both know the constant.
Her: What? What constant?
Me: My devilishly handsome looks and your attempt at "beauty" WHICH is very subjective. So what else do you have to offer? Cause our looks are basically constants in this situation correct?
Her: She laughs and says "yeah i suppose.." (interrupt her)
Me: So you want to know what I really mean?
Her: Yeah i'm a little confused
Me: Well then buy me a drink duhh, no lunch is ever free! *cocky smile*
Her: Whoa well aren't you suppose to buy me a drink?
Me: Wow are you one of THOSE?
Her: One of what?
Me: What happen to all of "women power" and "what you can do I can do better?" I'm just trying to equalize the field here but you just keep giving me power jeeez
Her: Hahaha true
Me: Yeah, Im rarely wrong, but since you questioned it now you have to buy me two drinks! But don't worry I'll be gracious and share my second one with you. Gosh who says chivalry is dead?!
Her: Laughs and buys you drink
Me: That's a good little girl! *apply affirmation*
At this time, ask her to move with you and continue the conversation and you just have to feel it out to keep it going in the right direction, keep it light and don't let her qualify you.. Mine usually dives into the same topic saying "So no lie, I find you to be interesting and that's pretty hard for me to notice since I trained the old dude for DOS XX." They usually laugh or say omg ur stupid in a teasing sense. But you get the jist.
Hope it helps. What're your thoughts?