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Old 02-07-2012, 05:31 PM
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Default Neggin after you're cute opener

Just wondering if it's still appropriate to use a neg after you use the Hey you're cute or I saw you there and wanted to introduce myself openers. It just doesn't make sense to me to use them after you have already stated that you find them attractive, or are at least interested in them. Thanks.


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Default Re: Neggin after "you're cute" opener

It's better to neg, or rather tease as an Opener

Keep in mind a neg is a powerful shot to a girls self esteem, but teasing them or disqualifying right off the bat is much better, you don't want to say you're cute until she's dhv to you or jumped through your hoops and earned your affection. If she didn't have to earn it she won't value it

Alternatively you can use "your cute" followed by an immediate disqualifier, but it must come across pretty spontaneous,
Like "you're cute... Too bad I don't date girls who wear heals". Or "...But that (ring/handbag/scarf) is a total deal breaker"

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Old 02-07-2012, 07:01 PM
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Default Re: Neggin after "you're cute" opener

Thanks, I'll be sure to use that from now on .


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Default Re: Neggin after "you're cute" opener

You're cute. But it's too bad you have brunette hair because Im totally into blondes THIS MONTH


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Default Re: Neggin after you're cute opener

All cool responses. You can't go wrong with any of those.


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Default Re: Neggin after you're cute opener

Agreed with Red Baron, you do not want to dhv showing too much interest with, "Your cute." I personally like indirect or situational openers, opening with a neg is just not my style. You open and then neg works perfectly because negging immediately sometimes blows you out, without even a chance. an opener gives you a foot in the door.
one of my favorites, "Hold it real quick, I got to say your super cute, (shes going to try saying something here DONT LET HER), but dont talk you might ruin it." Laugh and she should be like WTF while in this state you just go off like, "Now that I got your attention let me ask you the real reason I stopped you.....

Tell me what you think.


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Default Re: Neggin after you're cute opener

I personally use this with no matter the degree of hotness. This is how the convo would go. Introduce touching and such as it feels comfortable.

*Walk up to her next to the bar or where ever*

Me: Wow excuse me, but you're invading my personal space (w/ seriousness)
Her: Oh I'm sorry (and gives me a little space)
Me: Thanks, didn't know if being polite was encoded in your manual (slight laugh)
Her: *various replies* Smiles but then I raise my finger as if im telling her to stop
Me: Hmmmm (look her up and down, and make sure she sees you doing so) tsk tsk
Her: What?
Me: HMMMMM (with my hand on my chin as if im thinking while being goofy) is this all?
Her: Is what all?
Me: Is THIS (point to her up and down) it? *slight laugh*
Her: What do you mean?
Me: Is this all you have to offer? *cocky laugh*
Her: No.. *and as shes talking interrupt her*
Me: Well I'm just being real, you can stand your value as I do mine and we both know the constant.
Her: What? What constant?
Me: My devilishly handsome looks and your attempt at "beauty" WHICH is very subjective. So what else do you have to offer? Cause our looks are basically constants in this situation correct?
Her: She laughs and says "yeah i suppose.." (interrupt her)
Me: So you want to know what I really mean?
Her: Yeah i'm a little confused
Me: Well then buy me a drink duhh, no lunch is ever free! *cocky smile*
Her: Whoa well aren't you suppose to buy me a drink?
Me: Wow are you one of THOSE?
Her: One of what?
Me: What happen to all of "women power" and "what you can do I can do better?" I'm just trying to equalize the field here but you just keep giving me power jeeez
Her: Hahaha true
Me: Yeah, Im rarely wrong, but since you questioned it now you have to buy me two drinks! But don't worry I'll be gracious and share my second one with you. Gosh who says chivalry is dead?!
Her: Laughs and buys you drink
Me: That's a good little girl! *apply affirmation*

At this time, ask her to move with you and continue the conversation and you just have to feel it out to keep it going in the right direction, keep it light and don't let her qualify you.. Mine usually dives into the same topic saying "So no lie, I find you to be interesting and that's pretty hard for me to notice since I trained the old dude for DOS XX." They usually laugh or say omg ur stupid in a teasing sense. But you get the jist.

Hope it helps. What're your thoughts?


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