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Old 11-07-2011, 04:32 AM
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Default I recommend "How To Become An Alpha Male" by John Alexander for beginning PUA's

I was just reading through John Alexander's "How To Become An Alpha Male". I hadn't done so in a while, but when I just read through it a little, I realised how great this book is for beginning PUA's.

First of all, it teaches you inner game. Which, in my opinion, is far the most important. It teaches you how to walk, talk, and behave like an Alpha male. It also convinces you it's not bad to get rejected by women and you must be persistent until they either do so or you have sex with them.

Second of all, it explains more about female psychology. Like how women are afraid to be judged by others, especially you, and how that affects their actions.

Third, it teaches you basic approaching. Loads of beginners have aa, and they read all kinds of stuff on how to approach sets, while they're still afraid of even talking to a lone girl. This book focuses on approaching a single woman at a time. It has some arguments on why you shouldn't approach sets and stuff, but you can leave that be once you've mastered the basics and are ready to open sets.

There's more to it, and I haven't finished reading it yet, but I just wanted to share this. It helps you learn the basics of pick-up, and for more info on specific areas you can always read specialised books later on. I think I was wrong putting it away earlier, but I had more literature to read on the subject. I'll finish the book from where I left off a while ago and than read it all over again.


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Default Re: I recommend "How To Become An Alpha Male" by John Alexander for beginni

I forgot about this book. It was actually the first book I read on this subject, before even reading the Game or even learning about pickup.

It's cool because it teaches you and instructs you on recording a self-hypnotizing tape that makes you more alpha subconsciously too.


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Default Re: I recommend "How To Become An Alpha Male" by John Alexander for beginni

ha nice, gonna get that 1. Did you read pandora's box?? because im still a noob at all this picking up and just wanted to know if the books in there are good for beginners.


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Default Re: I recommend "How To Become An Alpha Male" by John Alexander for beginni

Yeah, I did. It's heavily concentrating on the psychology side of women and relationships. How To Become An Alpha Male covers the basics of pandora's box, though. PB is more extended. If you already have HTBAAM you should only get PB if you want to learn about the 8 types of women and how to adjust your seduction strategy to each one of them. PB tought me a lot but I read it before HTBAAM, so I didn't have those basics covered yet.

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