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    legato is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I can't shoot my load!

    I've been with the same girl two weekends in a row; before her it had been months since I got any. She wants to take it slow. I haven't jerked it in a week and a half but still don't have much sensitivity. Maybe I've been using the grip for too many years. This has happened before with other women about 50% of the time, I can fool around for hours and nothing happens on my end.

    If anyone has experience or advice I'd greatly appreciate it. I worry she will start blaming herself or feeling unattractive if I can't get this fixed!

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    Default Re: I can't shoot my load!

    There is nothing in the rule book that says you can't use your hand on yourself during sex to speed things up a little

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    Default Re: I can't shoot my load!

    either she isnt attracting you well enough subconsciously or you should go to a doctor

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    Default Re: I can't shoot my load!

    I don't hear a lot of girls complaining about this! As somebody else said, you can get a bit of help along the way - although why not ask her to do it? Also maybe some other action. There is no rule to say you have to complete within her every time. Perhaps the anxiety of feeling the need to might be hampering things.

    From a practical point of view, consider trying different positions and/or upping the tempo a bit.

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    Default Re: I can't shoot my load!

    Quote Originally Posted by legato View Post
    I've been with the same girl two weekends in a row; before her it had been months since I got any. She wants to take it slow so no sex just BJs and HJs. I can get her off no problem but when she goes down on me I get like 90% of the way there and can't come. I haven't jerked it in a week and a half but still don't have much sensitivity. Maybe I've been using the junior high death grip for too many years. This has happened before with other women about 50% of the time, I can screw for hours and nothing happens on my end.

    If anyone has experience or advice I'd greatly appreciate it. I worry she will start blaming herself or feeling unattractive if I can't get this fixed!
    I am familiar with this but this shouldn't really be a big deal. If she gets you 90% of the way just finish off. It only becomes awkward if you just keep going and going.

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    Default Re: I can't shoot my load!

    the more you think about it the more pressure you put on yourself and the harder it becomes to finish off lol
    Tease yourself with some porn before you're with her, and dont hesitate to tell her what she can do to get to get you there!!

    Most of all don't think about it at all

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    Default Re: I can't shoot my load!

    hahah i had that same problem, idk what the hell it was either...but eventually it went away...just give it time youll be ok...it could just be your body re-adapting to the sensation of sex!

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    Default Re: I can't shoot my load!

    See a doctor.

    I go thru that too. It's high blood pressure in my case
    Carpe diem!

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    Default Re: I can't shoot my load!

    You would be amazed at how sometimes this is a serious addiction affecting men's social lives, e.d., and even depression. Recovery can take a few weeks or months depending on how extreme.
    Last edited by KristiBell; 07-05-2012 at 07:19 AM.

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    Default Re: I can't shoot my load!

    Search NoFap on the internet (: Your Brain On Porn is a great website that will explain to you why this is happening (:


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