Avoid the 'dog caught the car' syndrome, guys.
In your language, I have MLTR's (5) and innumerable others, and the biggest problem they all have is finding worthwhile lovers.
When you get good with picking them up, then it's good to be masterful with what you do next. Mastering the territory of love is no easy thing, but the oldest wisdom on the topic can help.
I have been studying with a tantra master for several years, which makes a huge difference – but almost any study in that area is worthwhile.