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    Default Advice on STDs with girl I like... help

    Hello guys,

    Just wanted to ask for an honest advice. I've been dating a girl that I like, and she has recently admitted to me that she has herpes. Now I would not like to turn her down just because of that.

    So would like to know your advice, is there any precautions that I can take?

    thanks

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    Default Re: Advice on STDs

    There are precautions you can take. i.e. condoms every time, dental dams...

    But if we're being completely honest...I'd walk away. Besides AIDS (HIV) Herpes is the only real "uncurable" STI. I really don't mean to be a d*ck, but you have your whole life ahead of you and I'd hate to see you waste it on one girl. Maybe that makes me shallow but if so there are other guys on here that would better know how to help.
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    Default Re: Advice on STDs

    Yeah man, I'd friendzone her. If she's a cool chick, no reason not to hang out with her, but I don't think any chick is worth risking your permanent health & the permanent health of your future partners.
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    Default Re: Advice on STDs

    yeah...thank her for her honesty, and make her your friend. And there is "Hepatitis C" as well that is a bitch! Always use condom...!

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    Default Re: Advice on STDs

    Thank you all for your answers

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    Default Re: Advice on STDs

    Personally mate, herpes is not a problem unless she's having an outbreak, my ex had it and I slept with her for like a year and didn't get it because when she had an outbreak we just didn't have sex for the few weeks that it was there, if u like her then don't cut her out just because of this and you should respect her for being brave enough to tell you.

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    Default Re: Advice on STDs

    And I'm not saying the rest of you guys are wrong, just my personal opinion and experience

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    Default Re: Advice on STDs

    I respect your opinion...and it is always wise to talk to heath professional regarding the precautions you can take if you want to go ahead with the girl. There is no question that there is a time when you realize a girl is more than just a pussy!

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    Default Re: Advice on STDs

    Quote Originally Posted by linking View Post
    And I'm not saying the rest of you guys are wrong, just my personal opinion and experience

    Linking x
    It's really cool that you're comfortable sharing your personal feelings & opinion on this subject.
    It really comes down to an individual decision, based on how much you're willing to invest in someone. And most guys would likely eject from that situation. (Myself included).

    But Honestly, I really appreciate the fact that you gave your personal thoughts & reasons about it. That takes some serious balls, when it comes to a subject like this.

    I DO know a couple guys who married girls with this exact health issue, & they've successfully managed to keep it under control, so I know it's possible.

    But it requires complete trust open communication between two people.

    And now that I think about it, if a girl is honest enough to bring that up.... she really might be worth getting to know. Hmmmm.... There ya go. Both sides of the coin for you to digest.

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    Default Re: Advice on STDs

    Scary. Good topic though. Atleast she is honest and upfront.
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