Also... I sometimes they don't know what to say for a response so they lag a little. We're all guilty of this... This game works both ways you know
one thing i saw that was pretty interesting, there was some azn chick on the train and i happened to be watching her fb (same would apply to texts) she had found her news feed to be more interesting than replying to the message notification she received, meaning she will get to it when she has the time ...
Any suggestions on this. I was texting a chick for two days then I stopped texting for a day. Then called her. No answer and no reply. What should I do now?
it's a bit hard to tell without seeing your text dialogue / relationship with her, if your texts aren't boring then i'd say give it a few more days and leave it at that (you can PM me the details if you want)
Haha, I should have done my homework before screwing things up. I met this HB7 last Friday at some latin/cuban event and I had the impression she was totally into me (she approached me before I had the time to do so and even asked for my number at the end of the discussion).
I was thinking of writing her on Sunday but everyone in my group insisted that I text her the next day. And so I relunctantly did and she hasn't replied to this day, lol. Looking at my sms again, I realize it was boring and unoriginal (hey, how is it going, it was nice meeting you last night. the band was pretty good. How about meeting for some drinks next week?). It couldn't get any lamer...
That's what you get from listening to others and not even putting some thought in what you write. Damn, and she looked pretty decent...
Is this a wrong text? Met het at a bar, she was there with a friend of her and a friend of mine, i involved cause I liked her. We drank and talked for a few hours, when the groud dissolved to go home and were drunk, I asked for her number. Textet her the next day (thought we were drunk, so I didn't want her to lose too much attraction I built up) and texted Hey there Katy without h and with y (That's how sheintroduced herself) Something funny you saw on your way home? (Ok, I think that question was boring) Greetz, the one you called xy (she didn't get my name first and asked me something with the wrong name) Well, I thought it were 2 funny remindings from the last evening and a question, so she will reply. So if it's the right number, should I text her again 2-3 days later? And if yes, what?
Any advice on this:
Caught a HB8 number over PoF a few days back. Sent her a flirty text. Thought it didnt work but she texted me the next day while she was at work again saying she'd be off at ten.
I sent her a text like 3hrs later around 9:15 and asked her if a feisty raccoon had stolen her phone the night before. Made a joke out of it told her they et mine all the time too. Said she could text me later and we could chat if I wasnt caught up in anything.
I realize now that since shes a snooty type of hot girl, she took that as: he's not available to talk this evening, so of course I never got a text back
We've basically been hindering on a fun convo for a few days now and I want to make ot happen so we can start texting a little more often. Im just wondering though:
Do I wait for her to get back to me again? Or do I contact her this time to show her I'm a bit interested and send her something funny to start the convo.
What should I ask or send though? Typical bait text? "You will never believe what just happened..."
Or should I start with a random question? "So if you could only drink 1 alcoholic beverage what would it be?"
Or should I Freeze Out, and see if she texts back within a few days?