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    Cool FAQ Why hasn't she replied?

    I've seen it alot lately where everyones asking why didn't she reply after 20-30minutes, or maybe an hour or 2.

    The simple answer is she is busy and has other things to do (not necessarily better things) and you shouldn't let this eat you up or worry excessively.

    Step back, relax and you'll get a response within the 8-24hours you sent the text if you haven't screwed up.

    If not, probably rethink what you sent (:

    ##also the main reason for a text is to get to it when you have time -- same applies to facebook messaging

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    Default Re: FAQ Why hasn't she replied?

    Is there ever a scenario in which you will send a second text if she doesn't reply?

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    Default Re: FAQ Why hasn't she replied?

    Quote Originally Posted by Fuser View Post
    Is there ever a scenario in which you will send a second text if she doesn't reply?
    I also want to know this, and if you could alternate FB message and txt message?

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    Default Re: FAQ Why hasn't she replied?

    only after 2-3 days where you're making another effort, rule of thumb is don't send more than 2-3 otherwise you'll come across as needy, with the exception of spamming her phone via the alphabet if you want to for fun, then it's 26 texts

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    Default Re: FAQ Why hasn't she replied?

    if i send a second text in the same day before she replies i make sure it has nothing to do with the previous text. other wise it seems like you were just waiting all day to get a response. make it seem like the fact that she did not respond is insignificant. keep your texts fun and flirty. obviously if she flirts back you know shes at least interested and if you keep them fun with smileys and jokes, she'll want to talk with you

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    Default Re: FAQ Why hasn't she replied?

    If I text in the morning & don't get a response, I'll sometimes send a 2nd text that evening, but totally unrelated to the first one. (Depending on how well I know a girl or how long I've been talking to her.)

    OR... I may wait until the next day... (again, an totally unrelated text.)

    Don't stress over 2-3 hours of silence. Sometimes the girl might be at a movie, or getting her hair done, or whatever.

    There are going to be times when she really can't respond right away. It's not a big deal.

    It also helps to have several girls in your current text rotation, because you can keep yourself busy chatting with them while you're waiting to hear back from the other one.



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    Default Re: FAQ Why hasn't she replied?

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    If I text in the morning & don't get a response, I'll sometimes send a 2nd text that evening, but totally unrelated to the first one. (Depending on how well I know a girl or how long I've been talking to her.)

    OR... I may wait until the next day... (again, an totally unrelated text.)

    Don't stress over 2-3 hours of silence. Sometimes the girl might be at a movie, or getting her hair done, or whatever.

    There are going to be times when she really can't respond right away. It's not a big deal.

    It also helps to have several girls in your current text rotation, because you can keep yourself busy chatting with them while you're waiting to hear back from the other one.

    Having a few on the go at the same time is great advice, It really helped me to learn not to obsess over one girl! send a text move on and forget about it.

    plant many seeds, what them grow then f-close the most attractive plant

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    Default Re: FAQ Why hasn't she replied?

    When you have several "plants" beginning to bud, it makes "Harvest Time" much more rewarding!


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    Default Re: FAQ Why hasn't she replied?

    and farmville non-existent Tmal, haha :P

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    Default Re: FAQ Why hasn't she replied?

    Whoa im confused... we're talking about gaming plants now? Well, i been getting massive ioi's from a rose bush lately but whenever i Kino i get a thorne in my hand. Anyone know if i should Freeze Out???
    Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
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