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    Question Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    Quote Originally Posted by hyp View Post
    if ur watching porn a few times a week, ditch it, that can fqck u up as well but id say ur anxiety killed it cause it was ur first, next time u'll be good (y)
    Oh yeah, I forgot to mention this, thanks for reminding me!
    Before this, I was masturbating to porn daily, sometimes when I had a lot of freetime, even 2 times a day!

    like 3 or 4 days before this incident, I didn't masturbate at all, I was just excited to get to see her that weekend, so my mind was already busy and didn't need to wander around looking for satisfaction in porn... since then, I feel like I totally lost my sex drive! I don't feel the need to watch porn anymore, like ... AT ALL! I find it extremely weird!
    I tried it around 3 times since, went on a porn site, watched a few hot videos and jarked it, just to 'test' to see if it's not broken or something, and, well, everything seemed normal, it was functioning as normal ... after this troubleshooting session, I felt a bit relieved, but I still didn't get my sexdrive back... I don't feel the need anymore, is that normal?!

    It's been 3 days that I didn't visit any adult site, and I don't feel like missing anything! I'm gonna see her tomorrow evening, and I'm feeling more and more stressed out about this!
    should I masturbate before seeing her? advantages and disadvantages?

    halp me, doods!

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    Question Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    Quote Originally Posted by scguitar View Post
    One simply needs to head to a CVS or rite aid. They got sh!t that can help.
    sorry?
    CVS, rite aid?


    I did mention I live in France, didn't I? I think you may be talking of pharmaceutical companies?

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    Default Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    Quote Originally Posted by rocketguy View Post
    sorry?
    CVS, rite aid?


    I did mention I live in France, didn't I? I think you may be talking of pharmaceutical companies?
    Right sorry, I'm not familiar with France. In America, those are like stores. Rite Aid is a health store, you can buy like health products and stuff. But anyway, move to America, darn french socialists.... j/k

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    Default Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    Quote Originally Posted by scguitar View Post
    But anyway, move to America, darn french socialists.... j/k
    I don't reall like french, anyway ... I have Romanian/Italian origins, and have moved here a year and a half ago, when I started uni; I'm kind of stuck here until I'm finished, and then I'm seriously thinking about moving away, as I really don't like people here! Well, if I have to stick around for a few more years, I thought I may just as well harvest some ripe fruits from the fields, right?

    Anyway, the drug stores are different here; you can't get almost anything without a social security card, and a health insurace card; everything is registered in the system, and that's why it would be too difficult to try and get something like that for a try, without having it pop up on my parents' health bills ... not really the situation I'd like to be caught in ... get my point?

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    Default Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    Speaking from experience I can tell you that this is a psychological issue not a physiological problem.

    you just need to relax and enjoy the sex rather than being nervous and worrying about weather you're going to be great in the sack.

    I used to have the same problem. A tip is to extend the foreplay so you are more relaxed and aroused before you go for it.

    This should solve your problem.

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    Default Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    Well regarding porn and jerking off, it will make you a faster gunner, which is not that good.
    It's scientifically proven that jerking off may 'cause men to ejaculate prematurally, so ya know, a cozy vagina is way better than a cozy hand mates

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    Default Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    Yeah stop jacking off all the time. I solved my problem by just quitting masturbating. By the time I got to have sex, I had such a build up there wasn't even a consideration of not being hard

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    Default Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    You are sweating the "performance" aspect of sex too much. The devil is wiser because he is old not because he is the devil and I think I got this one down for you because when I was youngER the same thing happened to me many times. Sadly back then, you were on your own, no internet, no numerous strangers like on this forum to give you advice. Back then I freaked, but I got it under control in due time. I was sweating the performance aspect. I wanted to be her best. I wanted word around town to be about how amazing I was. Somewhere in my subconscious, I believed that unless I was the best best best I was nothing.

    Therefore, masterbate all you want, although admittedly porn could kill you - specifically because you will subconciously visualize scenes you are not in. You need to be in the moment not on gangbang queens 5. You need to be loose and confident. The truth is that with all the talk about messing up sex, it is impossible so long as you are not thinking about messing it up.

    The girl wants to be with you for you. She is not looking for you to be better than her last. By now, she doesn't care whether you are packing a 4 or 14 incher. She wants to feel wanted by you and wants to share the experience. You are already giving her what she wants, it's not going to get any better than that, so please enjoy yourself. Don't think about the vcard, don't think about the porn, don't think about competing and your pistol will fire just fine.

    Keep us updated young buck and get back in there.

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    Default Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    Don't worry its not pity, if the soldier doesn't go up, most girls think its their fault. Trust me
    ablindman's new account, pm me if you need help.

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    Default Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    I totally get what your saying about your sex drive, the exact same thing is happening to me. I haven't felt the urge to jerk or look at porn for about the last 4 days. I made sure my thing was working today; it still works I've pretty much stopped looking at porn for the last couple of months, I don't really see it benefiting me no more. I also think jerking daily leaves you empty, I would keep at once a week or once every 2 weeks minimum. Real sex is 100 times better than your hand, but you already know that now

    You can order pills online and have them shipped to your house. I prefer natural stuff, so I would recommend yohimbe and horny goat weed pills if you need them. It's a discreet package, you can tell your parents it's school stuff. Seriously yohimbe is pretty potent. It gets you rock hard and allows you to release several times in one night, no kidding. This is from my experience.

    Also, if she wants to be with you again, you probably weren't as bad in bed as you thought you were. The exact same thing happened to me, the first night sex was less than stellar, but she wanted me again and I totally nailed it the second time (pun intended).

    Good luck with your second night and post what happened. Being new to this stuff as well, I would like to hear how it went. You don't have to too much into details though...


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