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    Default Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    OK, guys, thanks for the feedback! this really is a cool forum, afterall!

    I'm taking the train today, and not only in a metaphorical way :P

    I really hope it's gonna work well, and I feel a bit more confident than usually ...

    I've read about a technique of freeing my mind of concerns, as I know that before, after the first time it died, every single time after that, I could only think about "what's gonna happen if it doesn't get up this time around either?????" ... so I found this idea, of trying to be "in the moment", to focus on the physical, by triggering an alarm each time I find myself thinking, or being concerned about something, and focusing immediately on a physical sensation in my body, like focusing intensely on my breath, as I breathe in and out, or focusing my attention on how her skin feels when touching mine, or how her lips feel when I kiss them, so that my logical side of my mind would be occupied the whole time!

    I'll let you know how it went, after I get back, which will be around Monday, I think

    Wish me luck, I think I'm gonna need it!
    Also, have an awesome weekend, guys!

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    Default Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    Quote Originally Posted by Ice Breaker View Post
    You can order pills online and have them shipped to your house. I prefer natural stuff, so I would recommend yohimbe and horny goat weed pills if you need them. It's a discreet package, you can tell your parents it's school stuff. Seriously yohimbe is pretty potent. It gets you rock hard and allows you to release several times in one night, no kidding. This is from my experience.
    yeah, forgot to answer to this one ... about the ordering online thing, that's NOT an option!
    My parents are really nosy ... every single time I order something online, I find the package opened and I have to search around for my stuff, in the evening when I get home ... last time I bought a pocket knife, i found it in my dad's room, or when I bought myself a graphics card, I found it under my desk ... so NOT an option

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    Default Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    You probably don't need the pills anyway. I didn't use any the second time I had sex with the same chick and everything went very smooth

    It's totally a mental thing. Just be in the moment and don't let any negative thoughts interfere, focus on how good this night is going to be and how hot she is.

    Good luck and take it nice and easy

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    Default Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    Oh for the love of god, this is a very simple issue. You don't need pills unless you're over 50 or have clinical ED.

    You just need to stay out of your own head and just focus on enjoying her!!! Jeeez

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    Default Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    wow, i feel so sorry for you she's so gone

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    Default Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    Oh for the love of god, this is a very simple issue. You don't need pills unless you're over 50 or have clinical ED.
    enough said.

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    Default Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    Well ... weekend's over, guys!

    Let me tell you this: it's been a hell of a weekend

    I'll start with the beginning: friday evening, in her room, we start kissing, touching, all that ...25-30 minutes of foreplay later, and I'm giving her the first cunnilingus of her life, I left her speechless... I was kind of proud of myself, too

    problem is, I wasn't hard at all ... continued foreplay, got hard, grabbed a condom, started doing it, awesome feeling and whatnot, but I can't get excited enough to finish, and I lose my boner after around 6-7 minutes ...

    Saturday evening, while on a trip, we get really touchy on the hotel bed, not condom around, we have unprotected sex, it feels great, 3-4 minutes later I pull out and ... yeah ... I don't have to tell you how awesome that evening was

    Saturday night, Sunday morning, sunday night, and this morning, same thing: get hard, grab condom, put it on, get inside, do it for a few minutes, don't feel almost anything, lose boner ...
    I have to mention that I only had one single type of condoms, the "orgasmic" ones from Durex ...

    any insights?


    bottom line: I'm sunburnt, frustrated, but proud, too ...
    I gave her 2 of the most amazing orgasms she had in her life, I officialy, by any standards, am not a virgin anymore ...


    Another thing that happened is that I met some friends of hers, including 2 guys that are awesome naturals ...
    They tought me how to open, how to surpass my aa, and it worked! I went for phone numbers, and I got 6 out of 8 tries, it was a mindblowing experiment for me!
    I wanted to learn more from them, but I can't go around picking up girls when she's there ... I also can't go out with her friends without her ... this sucks!


    So, guys, give me some advice, please!
    I now know my friend is not broken, but he only like certain things ... he's also small I also learned I don't really like traditional missinary, as by putting the legs apart, everything streches and I don't feel anything anymore ...

    waiting for comments, advice, criticism!

    Have an awesome day!

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    Default Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    Congrats on the loss of the v plates.

    But I reiterate: the only issue here is the one in your head. It's not about riffling through positions or condoms or whatever. Something is making you nervous when you have sex and that is why you can't finish with a condom.

    You need to relax and stop thinking so much. Don't think, do!

    if it's condoms you hate, then try putting them on by yourself until you get comfortable doing it and don't fear them as much.

    I know, exactly what you're doing, you're busying thinking "ok I'm going to finish" or "I hope I don't lose it" or "this position isn't as good" during sex. STOP IT. Sex is just sex... enjoy it.

    There is also no shame in telling her you're inexperienced, she probably knows by now anyway trust me. Knowing that she isn't judging you should help.

    CALM DOWN, STOP THINKING, START FUCKING

    oh and please use condoms, unless you fancy the chances of being a dada

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    Default Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    Quote Originally Posted by sidewinder89 View Post
    Congrats on the loss of the v plates.

    But I reiterate: the only issue here is the one in your head. It's not about riffling through positions or condoms or whatever. Something is making you nervous when you have sex and that is why you can't finish with a condom.

    You need to relax and stop thinking so much. Don't think, do!

    if it's condoms you hate, then try putting them on by yourself until you get comfortable doing it and don't fear them as much.

    I know, exactly what you're doing, you're busying thinking "ok I'm going to finish" or "I hope I don't lose it" or "this position isn't as good" during sex. STOP IT. Sex is just sex... enjoy it.

    There is also no shame in telling her you're inexperienced, she probably knows by now anyway trust me. Knowing that she isn't judging you should help.

    CALM DOWN, STOP THINKING, START farkING

    oh and please use condoms, unless you fancy the chances of being a dada
    I will absolutely use a condom every time from now on, but I still don't regret trying it without one, it's a thing I had to see how it feels ... and now I know, it's ok ...

    yeah, about telling her, I don't think so ... I don't like her enough to want to continue the relationship so that my lie would one day make me incongruent and bring out the truth in a shameful way ... and to the next girl I'll be able to say that I've only been with one girl since then, so I won't need to pretend about anything anymore!

    Thanks for your support guys, I wish you all the luck in the world! keep up the good work!

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    Default Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    I am going to go out on a limb here, and in an effort to help with true best intersts for you in mind, I am going to completely ignore, dismiss, and show no empathy for the stupid, silly, irrelevant stuff you mentioned about penis size and losing your errection. That stuff don't matter.

    Instead, I am going to focus on how bad-ass you were this weekend. You got back in there, you tried different things, you hung out with her friends and showed them and yourself you can have a good time. Frankly, I was no where near as cool and courageous at your age. You are doing everything right. I am proud of you for not sticking your head in your shell and hoping it would all blow over.

    Since, so few actually have a big one, and all of us lose our erections from time to time, I just don't see how any of it has anything to do with enjoying yourself and being yourself. Having a porn star cock has never made a better stronger man out of anyone. It's heart and soul brother. Don't fight the windmills and keep showing up for the adventures

    This girl is going to hook up with you again - guaranteed. And soon, some girlfriend of hers is going to want to too. Don't sweat the stuff you need not sweat. You are doing awesome. Time for hooking up with that girl again, and without fear, hooking up with others.


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