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    Default Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    Congrats man! You are now officially a bad a$$! You seem to be on the right track now... Keep on having sex with her though because you'll get more experienced and confident. Your also lucky she has friends; you might be able to hook up with them too. Also, she wouldn't keep having sex with you if she didn't like you.

    If you've never had problems with getting a hard on before, than it's obviously a mental thing. You have to just forget what happened the first night and completely erase it from your mind.

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    Red face Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    BIG thumbs up to the last 2 guys that posted, I owe you one, dudes!

    OK, so here's an update, if anyone's interested:

    we're still talking to each other, and she told me her friends really like me, and that her girlfriends find me really attractive, both physically and personality-like
    I can't see her for the next 2 weekends, as I'm really busy with getting registered for my next university year, but we may do something together in like 3 weeks or so, she already auto-invited herself in taking me shopping for clothes that would suit me better ...

    One thing, though: we've went over the whole 'relationship' thingy, and well, the idea is, she can't watch me pickup some other girls in front of her, so learning with her friends is out of question, but learning FROM them is not ... one other thing: she told me that one of her friends (the one that challenged me to get more numbers than he did, which I did), told her he doesn't think it's going to last for long, whatever it is that we have between us ... and I was like, ok, so if you're telling me that, it means you believe it, too;
    guess what she replied?

    "I don't know what to think, but let's make the best of what we have, while we have it!"



    am I dreaming? or is she basically saying it's ok that we only have sex, and learn more about the other gender's psychology, until one of us finds a better sexual partner?
    'Cause that's what I understood

    anyway, it's been a cool weekend, I had lots of fun, and most importantly, I finally, after 20 years of living with it, have gotten over my aa ... at least once

    now I know how it feels like, what's gonna happen, and what to expect when approaching a girl directly on the streat in daygame ... I feel invincible, really

    any other advice guys? I can already say you've probably changed my life, and I feel ungrateful for asking you more, but if there's still anything you could tell me about ... sarging, sex, or life in general, hit me!

    have a great, awesome, incredible day, guys,

    and greetings from France, btw!

    Later!

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    Default Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    Quote Originally Posted by hyp View Post
    Oh for the love of god, this is a very simple issue. You don't need pills unless you're over 50 or have clinical ED.
    enough said.
    I would disagree. For those who are inexperienced, they are going to be nervous and a boner is easily killed by adrenaline (that is what doctors use actually to help you if you have one for more than 4 hours).

    You shouldn't come to rely on it, but it may help as a confidence booster in the long run. I like the one guys' advice about not worrying because the girl will think it's her fault. Lol. That actually helps me a bit

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    Default Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    Quote Originally Posted by scguitar View Post
    I would disagree. For those who are inexperienced, they are going to be nervous and a boner is easily killed by adrenaline (that is what doctors use actually to help you if you have one for more than 4 hours).

    You shouldn't come to rely on it, but it may help as a confidence booster in the long run. I like the one guys' advice about not worrying because the girl will think it's her fault. Lol. That actually helps me a bit
    No I can tell you that the vast majority of ED in young people is psychosomatic. You don't need to use pills! you simply need to learn to relax and enjoy sex not analyse it.

    Having suffered with ED in my youth, I can tell you with certainty it's an inner game (mental) problem. People should address what's causing the issue because girls will pick up on in. The pill might get you the erection but it won't help to make you better in bed; it's just a way of avoiding the actual problem... be it nerves about sex or worries about not being good. Once I dealt with those I have never had a problem with ED since!

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    Default Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    Don't wait 3 weekends, the attraction will fizzle out. I would suggest doing something before that if possible.

    what do you actually want to take out of this? My default setting when I get challenged on the whole where is this going? thing is to say:

    "I don't want to put labels on anything at the minute, lets just see how things go"

    That being said if you really aren't looking for a relationship, you should be honest with her and actually tell her that. My last three f-buddies have come that way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sidewinder89 View Post
    "I don't want to put labels on anything at the minute, lets just see how things go"
    exactly that! that's what I basically said, and she was ok with the whole idea!

    I told her I can't have a relationship right now, and I'm not looking for one, and that I only like to appreciate the current moment, and that if we want different things, or we play different games, I don't wish to bother her any further;
    I told her to think about it, and tell me what conclusion she got out of it...
    that said, I kissed her goodbye and got on my bus ...

    20 minutes later, she called me saying she wants to play "this game", and asking me what the rules are, asking me to teach her how to appreciate the present moment ... that was 2 weeks ago, the first weekend we hooked up; we haven't talked about it again, before this weekend, when stuff became even more clear, as I said in my previous post.

    So basically, we've both agreed that we're not soulmates, and that we will appreciate and take advantage of what we have at the right now. also that we won't sleep with other people without telling each other, and breaking up first.

    About the 3 weeks thing, I can't really do anything about it: I have a LOT of stuff to do, I can't have another weekend off ... the only option would be if she came to my town, not vice-versa, and she would stay over at a friend of hers; even so, I couldn't see her a lot of the time, maybe only one night of a weekend, or so... but I'm still not worried about the sexual Tension going away so fast ... I'm playing stable phone game on her, and she's ALWAYS the one to send the first and last text of the day ... she sends around 2 times more texts than I send her ... so yeah, it's pretty ok, imo ...

    Thanks again for the input, guys, you're the most awesome forum I've ever been on!

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    Default Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    That's the way to work it, honesty is always the best policy. It is surprising just how many girls will respond positively to the whole "I don't think I want a relationship but I like having fun and hanging out with you" comment.

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    Default Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    Quote Originally Posted by sidewinder89 View Post
    That's the way to work it, honesty is always the best policy. It is surprising just how many girls will respond positively to the whole "I don't think I want a relationship but I like having fun and hanging out with you" comment.
    I know, right? sometimes I think that's the way they realise they want to do it as much as we do!

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    Default Re: first time sex experience (field rapport) ... medical condition?!

    OK, guys, thought I'd just say this: I just had an incredible ride in the land of incertitude and fear: I worried I could become a daddy, because ... well you know... I actually worried so much, I talked my almost-gf into going to a pharmacy, gettin at least 2 pregnancy tests, and trying one right now ... it's negative!

    I just avoided pregnancy! it's the most awesome feeling in the world!

    It just feels like one of vivaldi's best songs was singed on my cerebral cortex by a miniatural orchestra...

    CHEERS, GUYS! and use freakin condoms ... high blood pressure, heart rate and uncontrollable ammounts of sweat don't do good to anyone!


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