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    Question when do you find the time??

    When do you guys find the time to read all the material?
    I have tons of books, videos, audiobooks and stuff, but can't find the time! I only get to read on the commute I take daily, or 25 minutes before I go to bed each night ... do you learn to read fast, do you listen to audiobooks while working, etc ...

    any advice?

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    Default Re: when do you find the time??

    It's like reading anything, you just have to make time.

    Everyone says they are extremely busy and everything, and I am sure people are. But if you want to read something, you will.

    There isn't a magic formula or solution to figure it out.

    I used to never read when I was younger (never is a strong word, but I hated it)... Now, I just can't put books down.

    Bathroom, in bed, whenever. You just read if you want to.

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    Default Re: when do you find the time??

    Just make the time;

    you will get out what you put in so it's just about prioritising

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    Default Re: when do you find the time??

    All of the above!!

    I personally LOVE audio format!!
    I have lots of MP3s of interviews, audio books, seminars etc...

    I listen to them in my car whenever I drive somewhere.
    I listen to them on my computer at work.

    And as far as reading goes, I read everything I can, whenever I can. (I also got rid of TV, so it gives me more time to read or listen to stuff.)

    It pretty much became my "entertainment". .. LOL!

    But to sum it up:
    I would agree with the guys above me... you have to make time & prioritize the things that are important to you.


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    Default Re: when do you find the time??

    Quote Originally Posted by rocketguy View Post
    When do you guys find the time to read all the material?
    I have tons of books, videos, audiobooks and stuff, but can't find the time! I only get to read on the commute I take daily, or 25 minutes before I go to bed each night ... do you learn to read fast, do you listen to audiobooks while working, etc ...

    any advice?
    Less reading.....more sarging!!!!!

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    Default Re: when do you find the time??

    Quote Originally Posted by Suave Kino View Post
    Less reading.....more sarging!!!!!
    Bingo!!! Get out there & apply the stuff!
    All the knowledge is pointless if you don't actually USE it.

    You don't have to wait until you "know" everything... because there's always more to learn.
    So by waiting, that's ALL you'll be doing.

    You'll learn faster & develop much better skills by going out & getting sociable.


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    Default Re: when do you find the time??

    my problem is: I don't have enough time, physically, to do basically anything!

    I did prioritize my life, and sarging and pua training are not on the first few places ...

    To better understand my situation: I'm 20, second year uni, I have a small company of my own, in order to be able to pay for my scolarship fees, my rent, food, and taxes ... I live with my parents, but I'm just like basically living alone (I actually pay part of the rent that covers for my room, in my parents appartment), I wake up in the morning at around 5:45, go for a 20-30 minutes jog, come back, take a shower and eat something, get dressed, get a bus that takes me to uni in around 1 hour and a half ... I'm there until around 6 pm, with little to no free time or chance to read anything else other than what I'm supposed to learn there... another hour and a half of commute, I get home around almlost 8pm, tired as f*ck ... I make myself something to eat, I sit down at my desk, usually make some calls to prospect clients that may be interested in a website (I make websites, that's what my company is about), and I start working until between 11pm to midnight, then I go to sleep ... then in the morning I get up around 5:45 and ...

    you get the idea ... I've been doing this for almost 2 years now, and I still have around 3 years to go ...

    So, my question is, how can I use the little time I have for this, as well as I can? how can I maximize my learning curve, so that once I get a free weekend, and decide I wanna actually put what I've learned to practice, I'll know as much as possible on the subject?

    Thanks a lot for your answers, already!
    have a great day, guys!

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    Default Re: when do you find the time??

    Sorry to tell you this but the only way to learn to pick up women, is to pick up women. If you can't practice you are wasting your time reading a bunch of material. You are at a university for 10 HOURS A DAY, I bet you can squeeze in one approach a day.

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    Default Re: when do you find the time??

    Quote Originally Posted by Suave Kino View Post
    Sorry to tell you this but the only way to learn to pick up women, is to pick up women. If you can't practice you are wasting your time reading a bunch of material. You are at a university for 10 HOURS A DAY, I bet you can squeeze in one approach a day.
    I totally thought about it, but I never found any good material on university/workplace pickup ... plus, considering my experience, I don't really know how to make that work...

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    Default Re: when do you find the time??

    You are kidding me?! University is possibly the easiest place to pick-up, there are loads of attractive women kicking about. Plus there are normally standard student club nights that are on where you don't even need to talk to pull.

    You're making excuses because you have Approach Anxiety, just get on with it. If you're just begging a simple hello is better than nothing.


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