Re: How to NOT care what others think about you
That's a thing. Very good motivational speech there. For life this is just meh. But for Pick Up? This is gold. I am only talking like this because for life it doesn't motivate me. But for Pick Up it makes me want to strive hard and hit the yard running. Almost unfettered with caution to the wind. Ah yes we will stumple or at least I know I will.
Targets ay? Yes good old targets love those targets. Translates well. All Sets start as nothing as a Target. But then something happens you approach, you run your opener, break the ice, do Kino, break into a flow, start gaming, work past the rejection, sh!t test, iceshield, and eventually close the deal. This would never happen had you never opened, had you never approached, for a PUA to fear the approach is the greatest handicap and for a PUA to embrace the approach is his greatest strength for to be free from inhibitions will be the day I go from zero to hero. It's all Inner Game but when you ride or die Outer Game becomes apart of that (Iceshield Part 2) and you don't no longer know regret for embracing the Approach will cause your game to flourish and hit a new level. Done 98 sets and though I will approach on a dime in a Bar, Club, Work, Daygame, Holiday Event, Concert, etc. I still have 20 missed sets due to aa (and opened some sets AFC due to AA) and also not opening due to being stiffled via rejection. That goes to show I have not hit the yard good and hard. Ah I should go at this all out without so much inhibition then I will see the Inner Game I want to see "self-control" your greatest ally to throwing down in the Game.
I actually like this I really like this. Just as long as you don't wear your try hard hat all day and night you are good. Just wear your try hard hat a little bit but don't wear it out. It is good and clean to go all in so to speak but to temper your sword with graciousness. I have noticed when I hit it hard I get rejected sometimes. But then when I come back humbled or give a gracious reply to the rejection I successfully flip the script and the rejection turns into them chasing me or falling into my arms. Then it goes to my head again lol and I keep forgetting to temper my sword both with strength and with graciousness. You can't be too weak or too gracious (AFC/Nice Guy) and you can't be too much of a badass (A-hole/jerk) but combine the two and you got Alpha Male written all over you. Great stuff.
"It is what you do with the gift of life that determines who you are." -Mewtwo