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Thread: How to NOT care what others think about you

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    Default How to NOT care what others think about you

    I went to yoga one morning, then hit the sauna, hot tub and steam room at local community centre. While I was treating myself right, what I wrote below just kind of came to me. I was in sauna and my mind was filled with this epiphany. I wrote it on my facebook wall and it got heat. 10 or so likes, 2 comments, but someone actually shared it on their page. I thought that was the bomb. I wrote this, I didn't grab it from somewhere, and this girl shared it on her page. Best compliment I could get.

    Below is what I wrote:

    Do you ever wonder "How can I stop caring what other people think of me?" Take a moment to think of your favourite movie, book or person. One that you love and can enjoy over and over again. Imagine someone else having a different opinion of that movie, book or person. But you are so passionate about the movie, book, person, that you explain your love for it. You tell the person why you feel this way. At this moment, do you really care what their opinion of you is? Do you give a sh1t how they feel towards you? I'm guessing no, cuz this is a movie, book or person that moves you, that inspires you, that is a part of you. It is in your heart, mind, spirit, soul. You eat, breathe and sh1t that passion, so you don't give a f@ck about what others opinion of you, on the film, book, or friend is.

    You need to find this passion in other aspects of your life. You need to believe black or white on what you are doing with your life. When you feel strong and believe in your purpose, you won't care what others think of you. You will be yourself. You will walk with purpose. So I encourage everyone reading this, to start digging around, what are you passionate about? What do you believe in? Get involved with that cause, if it is cleaning apartments and you get joy from it, do it. if it is helping others achieve their goals, help others. If it is working in sales and reaching your targets, go out and get some. Just believe in yourself. You will stumble, get back up. Just have passion and truly believe in what you are doing and the direction you are moving. And there will come a time when you realize, that you don't care what others think of you, because you know in your heart that what you are doing is 100% right for you.

    I hope this helps with your journey.

    Easyflow.
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    Default Re: How to NOT care what others think about you

    That's a thing. Very good motivational speech there. For life this is just meh. But for Pick Up? This is gold. I am only talking like this because for life it doesn't motivate me. But for Pick Up it makes me want to strive hard and hit the yard running. Almost unfettered with caution to the wind. Ah yes we will stumple or at least I know I will.

    Targets ay? Yes good old targets love those targets. Translates well. All Sets start as nothing as a Target. But then something happens you approach, you run your opener, break the ice, do Kino, break into a flow, start gaming, work past the rejection, sh!t test, iceshield, and eventually close the deal. This would never happen had you never opened, had you never approached, for a PUA to fear the approach is the greatest handicap and for a PUA to embrace the approach is his greatest strength for to be free from inhibitions will be the day I go from zero to hero. It's all Inner Game but when you ride or die Outer Game becomes apart of that (Iceshield Part 2) and you don't no longer know regret for embracing the Approach will cause your game to flourish and hit a new level. Done 98 sets and though I will approach on a dime in a Bar, Club, Work, Daygame, Holiday Event, Concert, etc. I still have 20 missed sets due to aa (and opened some sets AFC due to AA) and also not opening due to being stiffled via rejection. That goes to show I have not hit the yard good and hard. Ah I should go at this all out without so much inhibition then I will see the Inner Game I want to see "self-control" your greatest ally to throwing down in the Game.


    I actually like this I really like this. Just as long as you don't wear your try hard hat all day and night you are good. Just wear your try hard hat a little bit but don't wear it out. It is good and clean to go all in so to speak but to temper your sword with graciousness. I have noticed when I hit it hard I get rejected sometimes. But then when I come back humbled or give a gracious reply to the rejection I successfully flip the script and the rejection turns into them chasing me or falling into my arms. Then it goes to my head again lol and I keep forgetting to temper my sword both with strength and with graciousness. You can't be too weak or too gracious (AFC/Nice Guy) and you can't be too much of a badass (A-hole/jerk) but combine the two and you got Alpha Male written all over you. Great stuff.
    "It is what you do with the gift of life that determines who you are." -Mewtwo


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