You've gotten the logistics right, you've applied just the right amount of teasing and qualification, you've taken her on an emotional adventure, and now she lies naked below you.

When it comes down to the main act itself, what are people's biggest sticking points or challenges when it comes to the physical act? Perhaps it's your own body image, your stamina, what you say or don't say, your beliefs.

Often we put so much effort into the courtship dance, the words, the techniques, yet we neglect to take care of what will happen when things actually get down to the crunch.

I have experienced my own challenges in the past, and I am keen to hear what others are struggling with, either physical, or mental, or both.