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    Default Re: "alpha males" / all pua need to learn this.

    Being alpha does not mean winning fights it means being the leader and having more social value than your competition.
    It means being respected rather than demanding people respect you.
    It means people want to be around you.

    Maybe you get that through fighting, but I wouldn't recommend it because other than being ineffective it also carries the risk of injury and legal trouble. In tribal days it might have worked better but in modern society the violent are more likely to be shunned and removed from society - the opposite of your objective.

    If you can't lead without violence then you will end up losing women to weaker yet smarter PUAs like me.

    So what do you do when a chode threatens violence? First asses the threat. If he has you cornered in an alley alone with a gang of his own friends, try talking your way out of it. Buy him a drink and see if you can use him as social proof to get more women. I've done it.

    If on the other hand it's in the middle of the club and you already befriended the bouncers and half the bar? I dunno, depends on the situation but you definitely don't need to fight because you have nothing to gain from it. Let him make an ass of himself. Or Number Close and move on. endless choices...

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    Default Re: "alpha males" / all pua need to learn this.

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    Alright guys this is one thing that pisses me off about AFC that want to become pua's and MPUA's alike: we all know that we pick up women and love doing it and all that stuff. Some of us sometimes hit on women with boyfriends/try to commit the robbery, so now my big issue that gets me mad I'd when I hear that her bf tries to fight you guys and you punk out and look like a little B1tch. Come on now guys, you say you're an alpha yet you get publicly humiliated by guys. Real alpha stand and fight. Learn how to fight or atleast defend yourselves. No getting b1tched and then coming on here and telling us how he was so mean and wouldn't let you get your drinks and what not. Alpha= being a leader and fighting for what's right, not getting bullied and then crying about it afterwards and telling us like we have your answer that can solve your problem that ALREADY happened. My advice is to LEARN HOW TO DEFEND YOURSELF AND FIGHT WHEN YOU NEED TO. DO NOT LET A GUY MAKE YOU LOOK LIKE A PU$$Y AND THEN CLAIM YOU'RE AN ALPHA!! THAT'S NOT HOW IT WORKS.
    Dude, if you're gaming a girl with a bf, you're doing it for sex, not a fucking life partner. Why fight over a girl for one thing, but a girl you don't give a shit about? A real alpha has a cool head and diffuse situations. Beta is a hot head who loses it over nothing. So you may say we're not alpha, but we're a hell of a lot more alpha than you

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    Default Re: "alpha males" / all pua need to learn this.

    Do you know who behaves this way ?? Gorillas and prepubecent males ...anybody with the idea that being alpha = fighting needs to evolve another 100,000 years

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    Default Re: "alpha males" / all pua need to learn this.

    Quote Originally Posted by DirectIsBest View Post
    I don't agree with this. I have had plenty of problems with guys trying to fight me at party's. They didn't necessarily have gf's that I was hitting on...it was just random jealousy I think. I never fight, but I also don't back down. I tell them what I think and that what they are doing is bs. "Everybody is here to have a good time man, lets just have a good time. I'm not fighting you." Then walk away. You come out as the bigger man and he looks like a beta who is controlled by his emotions. I would fight if I REALLY had to but it's not necessary 99 percent of the time. I've picked up many women after that's happened.

    If you fight your possibly getting beat up, killed, or arrested. It's not worth it.
    Good method. That is why I try to do, be the bigger man. Any true alpha doesn't need to threaten with violence when he sees a guy talking with his girl. That kind of guy is insecure and a bit of a bully. The one acts the toughest is actually the one who feels weakest just as rattlesnakes only shake their rattles when they feel threatened.

    If he is that way towards me, I take it as a compliment that he thinks I have what it takes to take his girl away from him.

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    Default Re: "alpha males" / all pua need to learn this.

    Ok, I'm a trained Muay Thai kickboxer since 1993 who cross trained in BJJ and I can tell you this...

    Fighting should be last resort. When you got no choice. Most pre-fights (before you come to blows) is psychological and if you can win that then you win-win.

    Sure it's easy to give in and beat someone's ass who gets into your face, but it does nothing. Getting thrown out of the club and banned doesn't help your Social Status. Doesn't make your girl wet because it's not good/positive emotions you creating. Doesn't help your police record if you get arrested. Doesn't help your health in case you get blinded by an unlucky shot to the eye. Doesn't help your peace of mind if the slighted guy that lost his girl to you is crazy and comes back with a gun.

    I recently had an incident at a salsa club where the girl I was with was new at dancing and kept bumping into a nearby couple with a big bald guy. The guy got pissed, started posturing and yelled over at us. I boldly walked over to him. It's so easy for me to invite him to step outside for some Hawaii style banging, but instead I talked him down and diffused the situation without apologizing.

    By just doing that, standing up for the girl without coming to blows, now every time I see that girl, she always comes over to me and we good friends. +1 status in the club.

    A "mature" alpha male knows the best way to avoid a battle is to avoid a battle without backing down.

    You get more girls that way.

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    Default Re: "alpha males" / all pua need to learn this.

    A true Alpha Male, IMO, can fight and fight well. People that fight to an Alpha Male are immature and beta because they are allowing their animal uncontrol to take ahold of their wits. But he also doesnt fight because he cares about the well being of himself, the other gentleman, the female bystanders and the party. By all means protect yourself, and stand up for yourself, yes you can stand up for yourself without getting angry - Thats the Key. But nothing shows insecurity more than resorting to fisticuffs and unfocused anger.


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