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    Default Very need advice on book

    Hello,
    I need advice on a NLP books which can help me to improve my communication.
    I fail to open a conversation or maintain a conversation.
    Even if I ran into group of my classmates I graduated together, we just say hi to each other, I ask a few boring questions, they answer, and my communication is over, so they start talking to each other, and I don't now how to join to their conversation.
    So i need book which help me to open/maintain and join conversation and make friends.

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    Default Re: Very need advice on book

    Neuro-linguistic programming isn't going to help conversational issues. It is just using the psychology of words and gestures anchored to an emotion to provoke response from trigger words and gestures during a following interaction. If you are having flow problems you need to look at books about flirting and interpersonal communication.

    NLP don't get me wrong strong stuff but master the basics before use. We first learn to walk then learn too run so similar principal applies

    Barnes and Noble is a store that I get lost in all the time, psychology section of reference section I will look through them and read a section or two to see if it is what I am looking for. Also business skill section usually has books on rapport and conversation that are comprehensive from business stand point and can be adapted to game. The self improvement section has lots of social self help books.

    The specific issue you need to figure out is an inner game issue, and NLP cannot help that. I need to think about this hopefully I can find something that will help you if I can I will post it for you.
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    Default Re: Very need advice on book

    Thank You very much for explanation . I would be very greatful to hear forward from You !

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    Default Re: Very need advice on book

    http://www.puaforums.com/recommended...s-non-pua.html

    This post I bet can help it isn't geared pickup it is mostly developing social skill sets
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    Default Re: Very need advice on book

    That's really great thread, thank You!
    Now It's my job to choose one book to start from those lists and begin reading

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    Default Re: Very need advice on book

    Kezia Noble's book "The Noble Art Of Seducting Women" has some good conversation tactics in it.


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