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Thread: Books on not caring/confidence

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    Default Books on not caring/confidence

    Hi guys,
    I think I need more confidence, not just in pua situations, but also in life in general. I'm hoping it will me improve my aa, and my biggest setback in my life at the minute is confidence. When I go into a bookstore I see a lot of books about confidence, I was wondering what book would be good to read?

    Perhaps a normal standard book, then a workbook style thing as well, like rules of the game? (I am starting rules of the game 30 days thing as well).

    Also will it help me with AA?

    Thanks,
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    Default Re: Books on not caring/confidence

    read the e-book "be relentless" by david x, it can be found for free on the internet. it will help you to not care so much about anything and to pursue what you want in life.

    as for aa, confidence often comes from experience. once you've cold approached several thousand woman you won't think anything of walking up to complete strangers and starting conversations. think of it as "exposure therapy" (as in, the only way to overcome your fear is to face it head on.)

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    Default Re: Books on not caring/confidence

    The book that Meteora suggested is absolute gold. You should read it 5 times. The first time I read it I found out everything I was doing right and everything I was doing wrong. I was doing everything right with the girls that I was FWB with and everything wrong with the girls I wanted a relationship with. What happened was that the girls I was FWB with fell in love, I dumped, and chased me relentlessly. I would screw up with the girls I wanted to keep. If I would have treated the girls I wanted to keep the same way I treated the FWB girls I would have gotten and kept all the girls I wanted to keep.

    The stuff in that article REALLY works. I've experienced it my own way with some women in my life before I ever read the book.

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    Default Re: Books on not caring/confidence

    "No more Mr. Nice Guy" is also good and easy to find online. If you are coming from a place where you are always trying to take care of the girl, this is a must read
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    Default Re: Books on not caring/confidence

    Be Relentless is gold, I started reading it after I saw this and I almost read the whole thing in one sitting, go check it out!


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