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Thread: Approach Exercise "The Compliment Man" (A how to overcome approach anxiety)

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    Lightbulb Approach Exercise "The Compliment Man" (A how to overcome approach anxiety)

    Sup peeps Gotcha here!

    I have made this exercise for you guys with Approach Anxiety,
    This works by night, by day, at work basically everywhere where there is at least 1 person near by.

    I learn this to people who lag self confidence in my side job as a social coach/mentor
    and its so effective that i still use it my self to make others happy. So i thought maybe it works for you guys as well! If you are good at this you can up the stakes and make it harder step by step for your self..... Until you build eunuch comfort around strangers and woman that you can ask the for the number and improve your game. The exercise is based on the lost art of giving compliments.....



    The Exercise

    You will need to give 3 compliments to that you sincerely mean to 3 Strangers for 1 week.
    It can be any one in the world! Dont be pikkie,

    It can be....

    A small child playing on the streets with his awesome toy gun..... The old man at the bus station with that big beard that took him so hard to grow..... Or that girl that has that her makeup done so beautiful.....

    While doing this every day you will need to try to give at least 1 woman your compliment.

    The goal

    Is to make people smile/happy and make there day a lot brighter. Not to get away with a phone number.
    Stay positive, you got nothing to lose and everything to gain and they will say "thank you"!
    Always if you
    sincerely mean it!


    Quick example


    Of what i did yesterday,
    There was this girl doing her make up in the bus on the left seat beside me. She was using her phone as a mirror but she was pointing it all the time to me to check me out. While she was doing the eye thing with a brush she noticed me pushing the stop button so i could get out the bus. She stopped doing her makeup and made sure it was alright. When the bus stopped, I took my back pack, walked up to her said to her that she look absolutely beautiful without makeup. She said "Thank you very much you just made my day!" While giving me Tons of ioi's. I smiled at her then said; "Your welcome!" Then i left the bus and started to walk home.

    I could have got the number there with ease but that was not the exercise.


    The exercise builder/Challenge


    So good you made it for a week and pushed your self and stayed positive.
    Now try hold it up for another week, then another then maybe a month.
    Do it as long as you can! Try to give more woman compliments and you will get better at it!

    The Experienced Compliments Man
    (varieties to the original exercise)


    These are selected by your own if you think you got the skills to get to your next level game!

    (The Compliment Conversation Man)
    Oke you are holding it for quite some time now! Good try now to get in to a conversation but now try to pick woman you like. Same goals still apply don't try to get her phone number just try to make her day and enjoy yourself!

    (The Creative Compliment Man)
    Make your own variety on my exercise! Try something new maybe try to give 2 people a compliment at the same time.

    So that's it!


    I hope you will have a great time trying my method!
    Post your results! I cant wait to see what you got!

    Stay cool
    and
    Happy hunting compliment man,

    Gotcha
    Last edited by Gotcha; 04-17-2015 at 03:10 PM. Reason: Corrections

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    Default Re: Approach Exercise "The Compliment Man" (A how to overcome approach anxi

    I went the extreme at one point back in 2010/2011. I wouldn't just make a short compliment, I straight up asked women if they would have sex. Yes, I did that knowing full well that they would say no (and even if they said yes, I'd be pretty suspicious), but I just wanted to see what would happen. Most of them just said no, albeit awkwardly, but that kinda understandable.

    Not much beyond that.

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    Default Re: Approach Exercise "The Compliment Man" (A how to overcome approach anxi

    Quote Originally Posted by Aspie View Post
    I went the extreme at one point back in 2010/2011. I wouldn't just make a short compliment, I straight up asked women if they would have sex. Yes, I did that knowing full well that they would say no (and even if they said yes, I'd be pretty suspicious), but I just wanted to see what would happen. Most of them just said no, albeit awkwardly, but that kinda understandable.

    Not much beyond that.
    I heard this weird story from my dad yesterday and it corresponds with yours.
    My dad told me that there was this guy at his local bar in the old days and that he was the ugliest guy he had ever seen in his entire life. This guy was friendly drinking, Not drunk on the end of the evening.

    But my dad never liked him for this reason:

    Every night that my dad was at that bar.....
    This guy went to every girl in the bar and asked up straight if they would come home with him and have sex.
    And he would take every night a girl home! Most nights he would get a HB3 to HB6 but sometimes he even got girls that my dad classified as HB8/9's (And my dad had a good taste, What sadly has gone away)

    Its a approach to it but i would not recommend it for several reasons.....
    I bed you can think up a few!
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    Default Re: Approach Exercise "The Compliment Man" (A how to overcome approach anxi

    This is a fantastic idea. I'm really bad with just approaching hot girls and this looks like it will really help me to increase my confidence and overcome that fear of talking to new people.


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