Even if I'm social with my friends, which I know them, I'm not very social with a group of new people. If for example I'm on a trip with a lot of new people. This is my style. I cannot try to think subjects/questions for discussion in a group that I don't know the people. And I don't like to ask a strange girl the usual questions such as "What did you study" and "What are you doing for a living". I like listening to others and if I have something to say, I will say it.
So to the point, I always have girls asking me "Why you don't talk?". I used to respond "That's my style" with a little smile so I don't look arrogant and mean. And I always feel bad after this question because I feel that I should talk much, as the other people do.
A few days ago I decided that THIS IS A PART OF MYSELF. Maybe it is a negative one, but it is so hard for me trying to act different. Instead, I'm trying to think something clever/funny to respond when I have this question.
I would like to hear from you guys, if you have something in mind that will give me some points of cocky/funny if I throw it after I have this question.