Kino right to relax a girl and make her comfortable. I do. I have value.
Value, confidence, IDGAS, Next, she is lucky I am approaching her. These are my shields against feeling bad about a rejection. LOL. I just heard a statistic. There are 19 million people in the greater Los Angeles area. 9.5 million are women. At least 300 thousand are hot chicks I'd LOVE to get with. I can meet over 500 a year. Easily. So why worry about ONE rejection. Or even a dozen. Just move on to the next one. Why get hung up on one chick. There are many more.
Oh, and here is a neat video by Marni. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xUwkVTg6uf8
In essence, it is 321 go. Just approach. Forget about ioi. Just go. Yeah, IOI is good in general, and is a good rule of thumb, but sometimes you need to toss it and just f ing go.