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Thread: I recommend "How To Become An Alpha Male" by John Alexander for beginning PUA's

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    Default Re: I recommend "How To Become An Alpha Male" by John Alexander for beginni

    Quote Originally Posted by Mike413 View Post
    I would call that a moral victory. I don't know if I have the balls to do that(at least not yet)but I have in the past and it kind of sucks at the moment. Afterwards I think something to myself "well, I'm just glad I made the effort." As they say nothing ventured nothing gained. You can even make a little game out of it. You can write down all the approaches you make and even if only one says yes that's still better than zero if you didn't approach at all. However, you might not get to that one yes if you didn't go through all the rejections first because those rejections were practice for the one who said yes. There's many different ways to look at this.
    No, it wasn't a moral victory. I can't quite explain it, but I'll try. The rejection was like they leveled a shotgun at me, pulled the trigger, but missed completely. I was impervious. My shields were up, and their shot had NO effect. I like to remind myself of IDGAS a lot. I don't give a shit. I used to worry too much. What onlookers will think. What a girl will think of me when I approach. Now I IDGAS it and approach. Also the notion of an Alpha being a badass, and being "above" it all. Also some old fashioned internal arrogance. YOU are lucky I am talking to you. Women truly DO want attention. Here I am, a quality, confident Alpha man giving it to you. YOU are the lucky one. (This is also giving myself value. I am the prize, not the girl) Mix all that together, and that is how I got over rejection. I mean, how many guys make crappy ass approaches. That is not me. I have value. How many guys know how and when to compliment a girl? I do. I have value. How many guys know how to do Kino right to relax a girl and make her comfortable. I do. I have value.

    Value, confidence, IDGAS, Next, she is lucky I am approaching her. These are my shields against feeling bad about a rejection. LOL. I just heard a statistic. There are 19 million people in the greater Los Angeles area. 9.5 million are women. At least 300 thousand are hot chicks I'd LOVE to get with. I can meet over 500 a year. Easily. So why worry about ONE rejection. Or even a dozen. Just move on to the next one. Why get hung up on one chick. There are many more.

    Oh, and here is a neat video by Marni. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xUwkVTg6uf8
    In essence, it is 321 go. Just approach. Forget about ioi. Just go. Yeah, IOI is good in general, and is a good rule of thumb, but sometimes you need to toss it and just f ing go.

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    Default Re: I recommend "How To Become An Alpha Male" by John Alexander for beginni

    Typically I don't take the person too seriously if they themselves can't and haven't picked up a woman themself. This would be all female puas. Even if they are a lesbian they aren't coming from the position of being a man so they don't know what it's like to be a man approaching and picking up a woman.

    That's not to say that female coaches don't have any value to offer but it will never be as good as a male pua who has actually picked up women.

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    Default Re: I recommend "How To Become An Alpha Male" by John Alexander for beginni

    Quote Originally Posted by Mike413 View Post
    Typically I don't take the person too seriously if they themselves can't and haven't picked up a woman themself. This would be all female puas. Even if they are a lesbian they aren't coming from the position of being a man so they don't know what it's like to be a man approaching and picking up a woman.

    That's not to say that female coaches don't have any value to offer but it will never be as good as a male pua who has actually picked up women.
    I believe both Marni and Kezia have been wing men (girls). In fact that is Marni's tag line: Your wing girl. So they have both been right there in the hunt. Although a lot of times the give a girls' perspective of things that will work or not work and what they look for. Valuable stuff. As opposed to Negeen Dargahi. Most of what she says is the exact opposite of what a guy should do.


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