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Thread: I recommend "How To Become An Alpha Male" by John Alexander for beginning PUA's

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    Default I recommend "How To Become An Alpha Male" by John Alexander for beginning PUA's

    I was just reading through John Alexander's "How To Become An Alpha Male". I hadn't done so in a while, but when I just read through it a little, I realised how great this book is for beginning PUA's.

    First of all, it teaches you inner game. Which, in my opinion, is far the most important. It teaches you how to walk, talk, and behave like an Alpha male. It also convinces you it's not bad to get rejected by women and you must be persistent until they either do so or you have sex with them.

    Second of all, it explains more about female psychology. Like how women are afraid to be judged by others, especially you, and how that affects their actions.

    Third, it teaches you basic approaching. Loads of beginners have aa, and they read all kinds of stuff on how to approach sets, while they're still afraid of even talking to a lone girl. This book focuses on approaching a single woman at a time. It has some arguments on why you shouldn't approach sets and stuff, but you can leave that be once you've mastered the basics and are ready to open sets.

    There's more to it, and I haven't finished reading it yet, but I just wanted to share this. It helps you learn the basics of pick-up, and for more info on specific areas you can always read specialised books later on. I think I was wrong putting it away earlier, but I had more literature to read on the subject. I'll finish the book from where I left off a while ago and than read it all over again.

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    Default Re: I recommend "How To Become An Alpha Male" by John Alexander for beginni

    I forgot about this book. It was actually the first book I read on this subject, before even reading the Game or even learning about pickup.

    It's cool because it teaches you and instructs you on recording a self-hypnotizing tape that makes you more alpha subconsciously too.

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    Default Re: I recommend "How To Become An Alpha Male" by John Alexander for beginni

    ha nice, gonna get that 1. Did you read pandora's box?? because im still a noob at all this picking up and just wanted to know if the books in there are good for beginners.

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    Yeah, I did. It's heavily concentrating on the psychology side of women and relationships. How To Become An Alpha Male covers the basics of pandora's box, though. PB is more extended. If you already have HTBAAM you should only get PB if you want to learn about the 8 types of women and how to adjust your seduction strategy to each one of them. PB tought me a lot but I read it before HTBAAM, so I didn't have those basics covered yet.

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    Thumbs up Re: I recommend "How To Become An Alpha Male" by John Alexander for beginni

    ya men its awesome i really love what that dude shared with us( "How To Become An Alpha Male" by John Alexander )

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    Default Re: I recommend "How To Become An Alpha Male" by John Alexander for beginni

    Nice! I have this in the stash, Gonna get to it!

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    Default Re: I recommend "How To Become An Alpha Male" by John Alexander for beginni

    I have it printed out in a binder somewhere but I never completed it. It's seems pretty good except for where he says to buy four different pairs of shoes. :P

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    Default Re: I recommend "How To Become An Alpha Male" by John Alexander for beginni

    Quote Originally Posted by Virgil View Post
    It also convinces you it's not bad to get rejected by women.....
    I don't know what the book says about this, but I was just thinking about this. I was thinking about how badly I got rejected by 3 lower end women. (there were no good women around, and I was just practicing) What I loved about that experience was, it really gave me a chance to be Alpha in a difficult situation. I mean, I was cool, polite to them despite the rejection. I got rejected, but I WON. (Charlie Sheen Winning, LOL) I WON because it did not bother me. I guess the lesson here is, get the girl or don't get the girl, walk away a winner.

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    Default Re: I recommend "How To Become An Alpha Male" by John Alexander for beginni

    It actually isn't bad to get rejected by women. I think the issue is how you perceive it. Yes, technically if you ask a woman out or go for contact info and she says no that can be considered rejection but it's more important to just take action. If you really know what you are doing and learn how to read women and can tell when she's interested and invested in you rejection becomes much more unlikely. I'd say it's more important to know when to walk away and cut your losses than to just keep going when she's not going to reciprocate. Another thing to remember is to qualify her that way you are in the position of rejecting her instead.

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    Default Re: I recommend "How To Become An Alpha Male" by John Alexander for beginni

    Quote Originally Posted by LA.OC.Skater View Post
    I don't know what the book says about this, but I was just thinking about this. I was thinking about how badly I got rejected by 3 lower end women. (there were no good women around, and I was just practicing) What I loved about that experience was, it really gave me a chance to be Alpha in a difficult situation. I mean, I was cool, polite to them despite the rejection. I got rejected, but I WON. (Charlie Sheen Winning, LOL) I WON because it did not bother me. I guess the lesson here is, get the girl or don't get the girl, walk away a winner.
    I would call that a moral victory. I don't know if I have the balls to do that(at least not yet)but I have in the past and it kind of sucks at the moment. Afterwards I think something to myself "well, I'm just glad I made the effort." As they say nothing ventured nothing gained. You can even make a little game out of it. You can write down all the approaches you make and even if only one says yes that's still better than zero if you didn't approach at all. However, you might not get to that one yes if you didn't go through all the rejections first because those rejections were practice for the one who said yes. There's many different ways to look at this.

    I'm not really sure what you mean by lower end but let's assume you mean average or below average in looks. Getting rejected by women who are maybe a 5 or lower is a good thing and here's why. It makes you realize that it's not about looks. Women don't choose a man(despite what many of them will tell you)based on a man's looks. Yes, it can be part of it but it's almost never going to be the deciding factor(only maybe if two guys are the same in pretty much every other way). I remember getting rejected by six's and sevens and thinking this while getting lots of interest from women who are 9's and 10's. It's about the connection and what they think of you. If you just try to get a number or whatever after not building any rapport or having any real interest from them then chances are you'll get rejected or blown out. But as I said it makes you realize that for a woman it's really not about what you look like. In other words your looks aren't going to determine what kind of women you get(which is what 99.9 percent of guys out there think). So with that in mind you may as well go for women you really want(for me it's 8's and up). Just last night I was in an environment with people mostly much younger than me and there was this guy who was just average looking and not particularly dominant who got the number of a very attractive woman(she was about an HB9). My first response was "well, they will probably just be friends" but the thing is you just never know.


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