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Thread: Fat girls need love too!!!

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    Default Fat girls need love too!!!

    So my best mate has this problem, and this isn't one of those stories where I say my best mate and it's really me but that is beside the point because I am sure all of us at some point have been there. (Fat girls I mean)

    I am trrying to introduce him to the community but his ex girlfriend was a big lady and I don't mean that she was just a little overweight TRUST ME she was what we call "Swollen" like 25 stone grand master of slouching big.. Before I go any further this isn't meant to be derogatory to BBS women, may I go further to add that I was once obese and a large fatty boom boom myself so I think I am allowed to bring this up.

    Now everytime he meets a girl and they add him on FB and see pictures of them together they are like "oh you like big girls?" and suddenlt become disinterested. He has pictures of them together in his flat but doesn't want to box them up because he said they are part of history.

    He thinks now that he is known as the guy who dates the bigger women because he lives a small rural village of 450 people any tips to help turn his confidence around?
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    Default Re: Fat girls need love too!!!

    It doesnt matter what you date. However, and I repeat however, in the real world women who are in shape and curvy is sexy. I have a few big girls who had asked me out before some even say they want to marry me. But thats not my cup of tea, I could not do that. I am a very healthy guy so I might say something hurtful eventually.


    In order to boost his confidence he needs to go out and talk to other women. If they ask about his ex, he needs to use that as leverage to neg the hell out of the girl who ask the question.
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    Default Re: Fat girls need love too!!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Desire911 View Post
    Now everytime he meets a girl and they add him on FB and see pictures of them together they are like "oh you like big girls?" and suddenlt become disinterested. He has pictures of them together in his flat but doesn't want to box them up because he said they are part of history.
    This describes the only problem. He cherishes pictures of his ex. Would you keep framed pictures of a chick on the wall after breaking up?

    I love my past memories with women but if we had a public FB relationship, I will remove all the romantic couple pictures after we break up for 2 reasons:
    1 It doesn't represent my current state & pictures can be deceiving
    2 I don't want to keep looking at them & regret breaking up

    If he doesn't want to delete them, he can change the privacy settings. Easy fix.

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    Default Re: Fat girls need love too!!!

    If he want to date other girls and want to move on, he has to start "cleaning" things that will remind him of his ex otherwise,he will be locked up with memories of his ex and can't move on and people will eventually notice that. After that, help him go to parties and socialize. That's second step of letting the people know he's not really what they think he is. If those two steps fail, hook him up with chubby girls, maybe that's what he really like. Goodluck! :-)


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