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    Default Can't get alone time with girl at work, need help with asking her out

    I work in a small office on campus and there is a girl I frequently see that I am interested in. There's usually about 3 other people in the room as well and I get along with everyone alright. I have talked I her a few times and am not shy so I don't feel like he would be surprised or weirded out if I asked her on a date. The problem is I don't know if I would be weird to ask her out in front of everyone else. It seems like it might be kid of inappropriate in a work setting etc. so basically what I'm asking is if it would be weird to ask her out in front of everyone else and if not how can I? Oh also, there's really no way that I can create alone time with her during work and I rarely leave at the same time as her or arrive at the same time as her

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    Default Re: Can't get alone time with girl at work, need help with asking her out

    its wierd if you ask her on a date infront of people especially if you havent isolated her so:

    1.You take your break at the same time and ask out for lunch.

    2. then you build rapport and attraction (also find out if she single)

    3. you ask her out on a date
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    Default Re: Can't get alone time with girl at work, need help with asking her out

    We don't really get breaks necessarily. It's the kind of job where we basically do whatever we want the whole time until we get an assignment to go fix a computer for a teacher or something, so yea that's what I mean that it's hard to Isolate her. Only real way is if I asked her to go outside with me but she doesn't smoke so I don't know how I would do it. Thanks for the advice tho I appreciate it

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    Default Re: Can't get alone time with girl at work, need help with asking her out

    cool so I'm actually doing this right now on my job. Basically you should building attraction every chance you get. 1.maintaining heavy eye contact is very important , 2.mirror her body language( sit how she sits,move how she moves), 3.Turn up the heat a little more when you guys are isolated..(be more flirty).4. If possible use the labeling technique( I like this about you) 5.Dont be afraid to have adult talk with her. 6. Go Kino, That means touch in a non sexual place. a thigh or elbow while you guys communicate goes a long way. you can work your way up to touching the small of the back and the stomach if your willing to push her comfort zone a bit.. ( in the long run she will love this about you). If you can effectively deploy these techniques you will build so much attraction between you two she'll be dying inside and sending you ioi's.
    p.s. she will think she becoming attracted to you and wont know why. So should she mention her boyfriend thats just her laying it out there so you can back off because she wont trust herself to.. Trust me this works keep me updated on you progress with this girl.
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    Default Re: Can't get alone time with girl at work, need help with asking her out

    Cool thanks I'll try to follow your advice

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    Default Re: Can't get alone time with girl at work, need help with asking her out

    ask if she wants to get some fresh air. there is a solution to every obsticle in life.
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