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    Default let's just be friends

    let's just be friends - otherwise known as the dreaded LJBF.

    This statement is used by women to let a guy know that she is not interested in any sort of relationship. Frankly it usually means she doesn't even want to be friends. You are essentially not considered an attractive suitor in her mind. It is really hard to escape the friend zone, so it is better to use pick up artist techniques right away to avoid the LJBF statement.

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    Default Re: let's just be friends

    I have a problem how do u get out off the LJBF zone??

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    Default Re: let's just be friends

    ^^^ haha just dont get in it then you dont have to worry bout getting out. Whenever I get there, I walk away. Easier to start with a new girl!

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    Quote Originally Posted by illusion View Post
    I have a problem how do u get out off the LJBF zone??
    Well like stated its easier to start from scratch, because once a women has marked you "low value" or "nice guy" its hard to rebuild that without being a prick. so be a prick we must. First give the "shut out" and not interact until you have your shiz together and your game tight. then, work on your game, you obviously can't fake it!! You need to come back with 3-4 times the amount of social proof and value as would have won her before she relegatd you to "friend only" status. Have adventure and good stories, social proof, girls, maybe a better job/ income and then dhv sly sly sly. Like they said, much easier to find a new one. gl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by illusion View Post
    I have a problem how do u get out off the LJBF zone??
    either turn her into your Pivot to help you get a better babe.... or just wipe her. it aint worth the grief having one of these devious fiends turn you inside out for a few crumbs. they will starve you and bitch you and make an AFC of you

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    Default Re: let's just be friends

    But let us say that i have met someone who I do not want to just walk away from. What do I do to get out of the friend zone? What is the most successful and quickest way to get out of it and into a relationship with the girl?

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    Default Re: let's just be friends

    im in friend zone right now.what should i do?
    i have been close to her for 1,5 months.
    i phone her every night. we talk about common things.and sometimes we talk about our ex girl/boy griend.
    i've been date her once. i never kissed her before.
    sorry for my english.

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    Default Re: let's just be friends

    Quote Originally Posted by bfrostfell View Post
    im in friend zone right now.what should i do?
    i have been close to her for 1,5 months.
    i phone her every night. we talk about common things.and sometimes we talk about our ex girl/boy griend.
    i've been date her once. i never kissed her before.
    sorry for my english.
    Look up Kyle's Friend Zone Slayer Guide on the forums--learn it and live by it
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: let's just be friends

    It's hard to get out of the FZ when you call her every night and talk about common things and the ex girl/boy Friend. You have to be fun, flirty, confident, and playfully tease her. Right now you are building comfort, attraction has to come before comfort or else you'll just be a phone buddy


    This is a GREAT post from T-Mal that breaks the process down

    1- Introduction.
    This doesn't mean when you introduce yourself to a girl, but rather, the very first moment you become a blip on her radar screen... it's her first impression she makes of you, mostly based on your body language & what she notices about you in a social environment, along with the way you're interacting with other people.

    2- Attraction.
    This is achieved through flirting. (AKA teasing, razzing & bantering with her.) It's the fun, playful part of the process. Enjoy it! Get good at it! Attraction is curiosity... when people are curious about you, they want to know more.

    3- rapport.
    Building connections, comfort & friendship. (DO NOT skip attraction & jump straight into rapport... you'll find yourself in the friend zone in no time)

    4- Seduction.
    This is where you shift from being silly, fun & playful, to being a confident man & begin sexual escalation. (Be sure to incorporate lots of touching during the flirting/attraction stage, or else seduction will be extremely awkward & difficult.)

    5- Relationship Balance.
    Basically maintaining a balance of continuous attraction / rapport / seduction in a cyclical fashion, so that the relationship doesn't become stale & boring. This is CRUCIAL if you want to keep seeing the girl and not lose her after a short time.


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