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Thread: Safest way to seduce this married woman?

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    Default Safest way to seduce this married woman?

    There is a woman who is a neighbor of mine and has been for a few years. I've been lusting after her the entire time but since I'm married and she's married, and since she and her husband live just a few houses down the street, I haven't made any advances yet.

    For the past few years, we have just been neighbors, stopping to say "hi" and chat for a bit from time to time. During all of this time, she has been a bit flirtatious with me so it's possible that she felt some attraction towards me as well. But it could have been that she just like to flirt and maybe she doesn't feel the way I feel. I have no way of knowing.

    If I knew with 100% certainty that this woman was open to having an affair, I wouldn't hesitate making an advance but if I asked her out or let her know how I felt about her, I would be taking a great risk because in the worst case scenario she would tell her husband what I did, and he would most likely go straight to my wife and tell her.

    I know I can't completely eliminate the worst case scenario risk but if I do choose to try and seduce this woman, how can I minimize the risk as much as possible? I'd be curious to hear how really good seducers of women would approach this case.

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    Default Re: Safest way to seduce this married woman?

    Do what every other married man does and keep her as a fantasy. That is my advice.

    However if you really can't resist and you are going to do it anyway you have to first find out her true feelings for you. This could be done via a simple conversation like: 'i wonder if we had ever met and got together whether we would have ended up on this street?'. The conversation should be light hearted and hypothetical and if she's interested she will say something to let you know. Use the BF buster techniques on her husband, make her feel young and beautiful. Make her start chasing you. If it works the next step is much more tricky. If you have a good relationship with your wife she will know this and it makes it much harder. You might be willing to take the risk but she may not. So then where do you go out? How to make the first move? What if someone see's you? Where to have sex? A hotel? Same town, somewhere else? How much is this all going to cost? Then what? Do you have children? The dynamic will change and she will no longer be a safe fantasy but a guilty liability.

    I think you have to seed her with the idea of a fling and allow her to be involved with making the decisions rather than forcing it on her. Get her to seduce you if you know what I mean. Then if the sh1t hits the fan you at least appear somewhat more innocent. I can't preach morals but personally this is all something I wouldn't touch especially with a neighbor. It's not the 70's with suburban swingers parties. I would spend your effort getting your current wife to satisfy your fantasy needs. Unless your willing to divorce and remarry or have open minded partners, I suppose it's a weigh up between a short risky fling or a long sustainable fantasy. Even if you get away with it, it will change everything. You will live with a guilt that might outweigh the pleasure and 'if you've done it once, you can do it again'. Most people get caught eventually.

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    Default Re: Safest way to seduce this married woman?

    Bro, you're married. FULL STOP. Use your wife to vent your personal fantasy's. Not worth it, if you want to hit on married woman, then you should have done it before you got married. You have a wife, you have won.


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