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    Default How to Deal With Attention Whores

    Hey guys, back at college now and i went out last weekend and wednesday night. I met a girl who grabbed me as i walked by her asking what my name is i told her and made basic conversation for a min then pulled out my phone and handed it to her, she put her number in.

    At the party i saw her talking to at least 7 different guys, prob doing the same thing.

    Then she texts me "hey" and i ask her whats up and if she wanted to hang out, she said yeah maybe then never responded.

    Same thing happened yesterday.

    How do i deal with attention whores like this? How do I get this girl more importantly?

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    Default Re: How to Deal With Attention Whores

    hey i think hoe's like this you got to give them that little bit of attention then freeze it and take it away. if it was me, id try break her auto pilot with something random. then play her at her own game by being unpredictable with your replies. sometimes reply after 2 mins sometimes dont reply till a couple hours. (because your a busy guy of high value) and you just about got time to speak to hoochies. right now she seems to be toying with you attention wise. you can take this power away from her by maybe dropping "hey, who exactly are you again?" however this proves higher risk of loss. Remember 'he who dares, wins!'

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    Default Re: How to Deal With Attention Whores

    i never respond right away, it will take me 20 min to respond and then she may take 30 min. but it doesnt make sense, everyone is glued to their phones these days. i get her text right away i just choose not to respond right away.

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    Default Re: How to Deal With Attention Whores

    Okay there's one thing common about these "attention whores". They want what they can't get.

    Some girls will go into a relationship with a guy and try to forge him into the best version of himself to enjoy the relationship fully.

    That is not the case with this girl. To get this one you need to be in your top form, already. If you're not, she'll just wander off to another dude, simple as that.

    So without making serious decisions about this girl, make sure you're better than every other dude who are in her social circle.

    Rock solid mindset. Killer body language. Insane confidence. Big smile. You got this.

    At the start, I said she wants what she can't get. So you'll be the unavailable one. But being unavailable doesn't mean you disappear. She must see you but she can't reach you. Like a gorgeous dress in a shop window. She should be able to see you in order to want you.

    This should give you an idea on how to proceed...
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: How to Deal With Attention Whores

    I fail to see the attention whore side actually.

    She texted you "hey", and you reply directly by "hey, want to hang out", that's super AFC to be honest. You didn't build anything before asking her out, why would she go with it?
    Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.

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    Default Re: How to Deal With Attention Whores

    Quote Originally Posted by Mikalichov View Post
    I fail to see the attention whore side actually.

    She texted you "hey", and you reply directly by "hey, want to hang out", that's super AFC to be honest. You didn't build anything before asking her out, why would she go with it?
    Totally agree Mikalichov on that, the move was pretty afc, what do you think the other 7 guys she has been talking to that night didn't try the same move? And the crazy part about this is, if only one of the guys asked her out too w/o even trying to build anything first, you and that guy are now in the same category, which prevent you to appear different anymore.

    I would say forget about that text, let a couple days pass then re-engage, and be different and a breath of fresh air this time.

    Good luck.
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    Default Re: How to Deal With Attention Whores

    So what am i trying to build?

    I met another girl and i want to start off right. Do i ask her to go eat
    At the dining hall? Its a place where we can sit down and talk, idk what else to do

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    That is the most AFC question ever. You need to know game before dealing with HBs, what level are you at?

    You definitely don't ask her out the first time to go watch each other chew while talking about work and family, take her out somewhere fun where most guys don't take her and then make it happen boy.

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    Default Re: How to Deal With Attention Whores

    Quote Originally Posted by DirtyOnPurpose View Post
    That is the most AFC question ever. You need to know game before dealing with HBs, what level are you at?

    You definitely don't ask her out the first time to go watch each other chew while talking about work and family, take her out somewhere fun where most guys don't take her and then make it happen boy.
    Im in college in the middle of farm fields, no where to go nothing to do.

    I texted her about an hour ago and i saw that she read the text but no response.

    All i said was "hey what are you up to"

    So if that is AFC, what do you suggest I do, where would you take her? What would you do

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    Default Re: How to Deal With Attention Whores

    You are shooting yourself in the leg buddy. "Hey what are you up to" is another one of those texts she gets from all the other guys.

    You could just start by sending something as simple as "knock knock", look up text game.

    And I wouldn't put myself in this situation in the first place, text game is pretty easy. Shouldn't be that hard to set up a meeting once you have the number; right now I think you should give her a call cause texting hasn't been the best. Call, chat her up and then ask her if she's the adventurous type, take her for a trip around the farms or anything of the sort.


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