Been dating this girl for a long while now but I ended things with her today, on a bad terms might I add.
The thing is that I want a relationship with this girl, but she wants to remain single. Thats the problem however, she keeps contradicting herself: she doesn't want a relationship but then again she doesn't want to lose me. She says that she changes in a relationship and wants to be free (single). She wants to enjoy single life I guess, but again, she doesn't want to lose me.
At one time she did want a relationship but was afraid to tell me. When I then asked her if she wanted to try she "magically" changed her mind and said that she doesn't need a boyfriend.
Eventually I got so sick of this business that I told her its over, and we ended up fighting. The sucky thing is that shes in my group of friends so I see her every weekend, and I can't exactly change groups. (If anything she should go). I told her that I'm moving on.
Any advice on how to get her to come run after me?