Hi. I lost my ex girlfriend do to me not showing her enough attention and second because she thinks she still in love with her abusive ex boyfriend. She hasn't contacted Me in about 4 weeks. And I'm not going to contact her after what she's done. I'm 34 years old and she's about the same age. So what can I do? I'm not setting around waiting for her to call. Just wish she would text Me are something. Any advice?