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Thread: She won't send me nude/sexy pictures

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    Default She won't send me nude/sexy pictures

    So I have been gaming this girl for a while (HB 9.5) Met her at a pub, have gone on a few dates with her and even f-closed. But no matter what I try she refuses to send me any sexy/lingerie/nude pictures. I have never had this problem before. I escalated with her but when I asked her she replied "I don't take/text/email those types of pictures or video's. Ever. Nothing personal but that's my policy" I figured I had just asked to soon so I didn't let it faze me and kept gaming. Tried again a few days later and got the exact same response ("I don't take/text/email those types of pictures or video's. Ever. Nothing personal but that's my policy") Same response every time I've asked.

    I know she isn't ashamed of her body (she knows she is hot) and we have slept together more than once. I asked her in person and she repeated her statement, says that once they are out there she can never get them back, they could end up online one day and all the other usual excuses. I have hinted that if she won't send them I know other girls that will (remember we are not even close to exclusive) but she hinted back that if I guy gets mad because she won't send them then he is not the guy for her. I admit I am annoyed because I have gotten them from other girls if I game long enough, but she won't budge. I have been Freezing Her Out and seeing other girls, having no problem getting pictures from them, but there is has been no contact from her. Normally I would have cut her loose but she is smoking and the sex is great so I would like to keep her around. However this is a dealbreaker for me. Any advice as to how I can get her to relent and send me sexy pics? Help!

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    Default Re: She won't send me nude/sexy pictures

    You won't get much help on this one from anyone.

    This is the strangest dealbreaker I have ever heard of. I can see dealbreakers in terms of the girl does drugs, the girl smokes, she has a kid, her body is covered in tattooes, etc. Personally, I just don't get it. Sounds more of an ego thing. A collection to show off? Sounds shallow.

    Every girl has her comfort level/standards. You can do everything right. Run the tightest game. Some girls won't fvck on the first date. You will have to just respect that like any views they have. If you keep pushing, it will do 2 things 1) You make her uncomfortable and she will stop hanging out with you 2) It makes you looks desperate/needy = unattractive.

    When it comes to women, timing plays a big part. Maybe she had a bad experience where she did send pics to an ex and it got out.

    Whatever the reasons are, it is not her time (not now and probably not ever). If a girl not sending you nudes/lingerie of herself via phone is such a big deal, then she isn't the problem. Birds of a feather flock together is the law of attraction. Shallow needs will attract shallow low quality women. Other girls may have done it for you, but she is not "other" girls.

    Freezing Her Out won't matter. You may have screwed the pooch on this one.

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    Default Re: She won't send me nude/sexy pictures

    You are making her wonder what you really want with it especialy after you have already seen her.that to me is dlv.this should create some red flags,suggest taking photos together in your house.let her take some of you not naked then escalate.personally i don't hone such things because if you been there why bother.she also senses that you may want to do something with them.tread cautiously.getting naked photos is nothing some girl do it seldomly.don't focus on that too much.

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    Default Re: She won't send me nude/sexy pictures

    Why the hell create an account to ask this stupid ass question. Have a little respect for her privacy. *points to door *

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    Default Re: She won't send me nude/sexy pictures

    I think it's more of an ego thing. The fact she said no makes you want them more.

    Listen man, you can't always get your way. That's not a bad thing. Some things you just have to accept and let go. Some women don't think it's a big deal while others are more concerned about them being out there on the internet or whatever. Honestly she's not even your gf so I don't fully blame her. If you've been exclusive for a few months then maybe she'll feel more comfortable. Let your ego go and realize you can't always have it your way like at Burger King.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: She won't send me nude/sexy pictures

    Personally, I would respect this woman a little more because she values herself enough to stand up to you and stand up for what she believes in. It doesn't matter much how or why she won't do it, but the fact she won't is impressive in itself in my opinion.
    KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple


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